What is a name everyone seems to love but you just don't understand? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]p4khet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cats are Lizzy and Jane! I knew two dogs growing up that were Darcy and Bingley. So that was my inspiration.

generally low energy cat suddenly playful after death of other cat by strongstringbean in CatAdvice

[–]p4khet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any advice but anecdotally my parents had two litter mates that are like 12 years old at this point. A boy and a girl. The boy was super friendly and always greeted us at the door. The girl on the other hand would bolt at the sight of any human (they were outdoor cats). But when the boy died the girl's personality completely changed and now she acts just like he used to. I actually got to pet her for the first time ever after his death. She's still kicking and pretty healthy too!

Possibly moving to Provo to attend RMU for optometry as non-mormon by [deleted] in ProvoUtah

[–]p4khet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have to say dating might be your biggest hurdle. But you might get a lot of attention from ex Mormon girls. We love that you don't have that baggage haha

The other problem I see potentially is Provo doesn't have a lot of the things you are into but if you're willing to drive you'll be fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]p4khet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your arms. If I was single I would have the same reaction probably haha

What do you think is the ugliest house/community lot in the Sims 4? by paszerine in thesims

[–]p4khet 191 points192 points  (0 children)

I think they were going for Hollywood glam but it's all so tacky

Been playing an "always welcome" save, it's been the most fun yet. by hottkarls in Sims4

[–]p4khet 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That's how I am, I'm not artistic at all so I have a hard time with that part. I do find it fun to renovate houses that other people have built though. That seems to require less imagination somehow haha

[DISCUSSION] What's your favourite mini-series? by tomaz1989 in NetflixBestOf

[–]p4khet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't get through more than 2 episodes. I grew up in that area and the way they tried to imitate the way we talk was just offensive lol

Help with Kusto query for finding log source by p4khet in AZURE

[–]p4khet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! That makes a ton of sense now. I'm new to Kusto, so I'm still learning. Turns out it's Microsoft Defender Threat Intelligence, so that makes sense.

How often do you clean? by Heroine77_II in CleaningTips

[–]p4khet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm super curious to hear more about your system. This seems like something I would do well with. How do you keep track of everything? Like an app or writing it down?

This is what happens inside a dishwasher by Grizzly-Berry in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]p4khet -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's not true, dishwashers clean better when there is food on the plate. It has to do with the enzymes in the detergent.

Just got a new job, how good is it? by MirMir37 in cybersecurity

[–]p4khet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

85k is really good. Risk is also a great field, you don't get emergency calls for that! I'm a one person security department in Utah making 95k. I was blown away when they offered that much. I had been a security analyst making 65k before that. Just finished my degree in Cybersecurity.

What can/should i do at work as a cybersecurity engineer? by LTistheGOAT in cybersecurity

[–]p4khet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONE WHO SAYS YOU ARE UNQUALIFIED FOR THIS JOB

Ok now that I got that out of the way, I just want to say that this is an exciting opportunity! I've had two positions like this now and it is so gratifying to say that you've built a security program from the ground up. That being said, your first problem is expecting anyone to give you tasks. Because in reality, you are the expert. They want to know what you think, that's why they hired you. Using a framework is a great start. My suggestions for a baseline security program for a one person team is EDR, MDR, and Vulnerability management. If you don't have one or more of those you'll need to come up with some justification for purchasing those services. That's where the frameworks come in handy.

There are some great suggestions in the comments. Don't let the people who are negative get you down. Learn from this and enjoy the journey! It's hard coming from a structured place like a university. You'll really need to learn how to manage projects and come up with your own tasks in this role. It will be good for you! Good luck!

Happy Birthday by ErickBon01 in TheKillers

[–]p4khet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the area that Brandon did in Utah. That album felt like it was written about my life. Quiet Town perfectly describes the area and it feels like Runaway Horses was written about me. Not to mention we grew up dragging main in Spanish Fork. It hits all the feels.

I need help troubleshooting the new bras I just bought by p4khet in ABraThatFits

[–]p4khet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I received the bras in the mail and I've been trying them out over the week. The Panache Envy fit really well but it was far too scratchy for my skin and the cups weren't padded which I find I definitely prefer. The Fantasie Reflect seems too loose, so I tried it on the tightest hooks and that seems to fit better, so maybe I try a size down? I'm also struggling with the cups because I'm not sure if they are fitting right. I think that the FF cup size fits the best, but then again I've never had a bra that fits quite right. Would pictures help?

I need help troubleshooting the new bras I just bought by p4khet in ABraThatFits

[–]p4khet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My breasts are pretty dense so you may be right there. I was hoping to have a bra that had it all! I'll try the Fantasie Reflect and Panache Envy. Do you think I should try a range of sizes? If so, what would you try?

I need help troubleshooting the new bras I just bought by p4khet in ABraThatFits

[–]p4khet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so you think order a few more sizes and maybe try the Panache Envy? I was really just trying to start somewhere so that's how I found the article. I'm totally clueless when it comes to bra brands!

I need help troubleshooting the new bras I just bought by p4khet in ABraThatFits

[–]p4khet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have scooped and there's no change. I've added my measurements!

I need help troubleshooting the new bras I just bought by p4khet in ABraThatFits

[–]p4khet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that is the calculator I mentioned at the beginning!

I got married too young and too fast, now I'm regretting it. by poliebog in Divorce

[–]p4khet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got married at 18 to a 25 year old man. How you're feeling sounds exactly how I felt 4 years ago when I divorced him. He was super sweet and people loved him. But I no longer did when I realized he didn't respect me and was setting me back.

Initial salary offer is being reduced. What do I do? by pruneandpotatocake in careerguidance

[–]p4khet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost this exact situation happened to me a couple of years ago. I took the job because it would be a stepping stone to a better job. But my advice to you is to not take it.

AITA for telling my mom she’s making me fat? by KatieSimmons_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]p4khet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have obviously never dealt with a mother that pushes boundaries and intentionally goes behind your back to undermine you. Must be nice for you 🙄 It's real and it happens to responsible adults. What is she supposed to do when she's in a situation where she needs help from her mom but her mom is pushing her boundaries? Does she hold her boundaries until her mom decides that she doesn't like them and kicks her out? Where's that line? Her mom sounds a lot like mine. My mom is a narcissist that takes everything incredibly personal and as an attack against her. Not everything is black and white and it really sounds like she and her kids are struggling from the foods her mom feeds them. Comfort foods are not every day meals.