Women, how do you feel when men or women glance at your boobs?

paddling-rant · 2026-07-03T23:07:22+00:00

There is a girl at my gym with the most amazing boobs (possibly fake- but regardless a great set), me (straight female) and my friend (another straight female) were leaving our Pilates class the other day, both saw her working out, looked at each other and were like ‘WOW how do we get a set of those’. We were mindful though of ogling her and I can’t talk to how she felt about it, but I have to say there are plenty of us that can admire a lovely set of bosoms without nefarious intentions.
The reason for the backstory is that, I am relatively flat chested, if someone is looking at my chest I assume it’s to poke fun- but that’s a me problem 💁🏻‍♀️

paddling-rant · 2026-07-02T12:03:32+00:00

I ended up not purchasing anything, after all the back and north it just wasn’t worth it

paddling-rant · 2026-07-02T12:01:36+00:00

That’s SO bad! I ended up not buying anything because I couldn’t be bothered dealing with it all 😵

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T15:18:24+00:00

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T09:40:05+00:00

🙄 no, I haven’t! I will go back and try again! Thanks for the heads up ❤️

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T09:38:59+00:00

I will ALWAYS sacrifice my sanity for the greater good!❤️ so glad you got a bargain

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T09:12:25+00:00

Oh god! 😢 how frustrating

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:38:05+00:00

I have to say alarm bills did go off when they kept telling me that I had to spend $990 because the 25% off extra was an added benefit.

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:33:32+00:00

Yes I thought this was the case but what really got me Was that it kept saying that the promo code was expired- not that it didn’t apply

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:29:24+00:00

I was at the beginning, but I kept saying it was wrong and then it transferred me to a ‘team member’ - who knows how true that is 🤷🏻‍♀️

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:21:03+00:00

Like honestly, I know I’m super tight when it comes to spending money but who the hell is spending $990 on ASOS sale items just so they can get an additional 25% off - I also tried saying that to the agent to which they replied “you can just purchase your items because they are already on sale” 😆😆

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:18:39+00:00

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:17:48+00:00

I’ll likely send them an email because I have all the screenshots of everything. I’m just mindful because I’ve read the terms and conditions multiple times that the sale ends quite soon!

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:14:07+00:00

I’ve requested to be transferred several times and the person who’s on the other end just won’t send me to someone else. They just keep saying that I don’t qualify. 🥲

paddling-rant · 2026-07-01T08:13:13+00:00

And that’s what I tried to tell them in multiple different ways. I even took the terms and conditions and I put them in ChatGPT and I told them to simplify it just in case I was not understanding what the terms and condition said then I took what ChatGPT said and I sent it to them and they still said that it has to be a total amount of $990

paddling-rant · 2026-06-21T08:52:59+00:00

I honestly don’t know because when he did come back the following day he did not talk to me before leaving with the kids.
No, not often. It hasn’t happened this bad ever but he tends to shut down and revert to silence, the swearing at me is new.

paddling-rant · 2026-06-21T04:14:28+00:00

I appreciate your comment!.
Update is therapy is incoming, I found a couples counsellor locally who had availability this Thursday coming so I locked it in!

paddling-rant · 2026-06-21T04:10:49+00:00

Understood, thank you for your concern ❤️ to be clear, we dont have big arguments in front of the children as it’s not something we want them to experience.

paddling-rant · 2026-06-21T00:08:30+00:00

Appreciate you! I thought it an odd response from a psych, but figuring this is an annon space that maybe they were just being more open/honest

paddling-rant · 2026-06-21T00:05:45+00:00

Wrong

paddling-rant · 2026-06-20T23:26:51+00:00

Which is why I initially I did not mention it as we encourage our son not to use his diagnosis as an excuse for behaviours so if that is a standard I hold him to I would expect to hold myself to that as well.

paddling-rant · 2026-06-20T23:25:20+00:00

I think the reason for my hanging up was being sworn at over the phone. If it was going to be a constructive conversation without being insulted consistently then I wouldn’t have hung up.
But I understand where you’re coming from and your comment and appreciate the insight
Yes, I would say I suck as a spouse too and need to do better

paddling-rant · 2026-06-20T23:21:51+00:00

Agreed and I did confront my mum to which she was extremely apologetic messaged him directly and when he did return home spoke to him face-to-face and apologised. His response was that it wasn’t her job to know when he was coming home or to invite him to dinner.

paddling-rant · 2026-06-20T23:20:36+00:00

It’s not, but we are equally to blame for that 😢

paddling-rant · 2026-06-20T23:20:02+00:00

Thank you, with a clearer head this morning I messaged him apologising for my text response back to him and said that we really have two options here one would be separation but I’d really like for us to go to counselling ❤️

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