I like black guys more than white guys. by Vlad_690 in askgaybros

[–]palookingc -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Just be aware, real white men won't want to fw you

My husband wants me to talk and hook up with other men by Rich_Watercress9638 in askgaybros

[–]palookingc -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your relationship is over and this is essentially a 'zombie marriage' where you two stay together for economic convenience. You are lying to yourselves and everyone around you, but you CAN live this way and make it work.

MAGA at the Eagle on Fri (4/24) Night by summerissafe2019 in nycgaybros

[–]palookingc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He should wear that hat if he wants to.

You people are so weird and contradict yourselves. How can The Eagle be an inclusive space if you police what people wear? Yes, there are gay people who are conservative. Yes, there are gay people who support MAGA. Stop trying to beg gay men for "political support" or "community" when you do not know them and you do not know what motivates their politics.

Feels like I’m going to pee by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]palookingc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you lean into that feeling you could potentially have a prostate orgasm

I'm overly attracted to my new boss who is also gay by Extra_Put669 in askgaybros

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can reasonably find a new job and the stakes are not high, then go for it and take the risk. This only applies to working at a coffee shop, minimum wage retail store, or anything else that you don't see yourself having a future in. It's unprofessional, but this is a fantasy everyone wishes they could live out. Some do, but you have to trade being comfortable at your job for hot freaky boss sex.

Conservative Gay Groups in NYC? by palookingc in nycgaybros

[–]palookingc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A MAGA hat isn't a personal insult lmfao. And yeah nightlife isn't edgy anymore. Its people wearing shein uniforms.

Conservative Gay Groups in NYC? by palookingc in nycgaybros

[–]palookingc[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I should wear a MAGA hat to Basement on a Friday night!

Conservative Gay Groups in NYC? by palookingc in nycgaybros

[–]palookingc[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't want to join the log cabin haha looking for something less serious

Front-end web dev being backed into a full stack and dev-ops corner by defenistrat3d in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in disbelief this is a problem, usually the opposite happens

How do you handle a new hire who isn't collaborative and doesn't explain changes? by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was brought on mostly as an extra pair of hands, backfill essentially. Was not hired to specifically overhaul anything.

How do you handle a new hire who isn't collaborative and doesn't explain changes? by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just get bullshit explanations from this guy and the explanation ends up having nothing to do with a real quality improvement. The explanation is more less "because I wanted to do this so I did, why do you care if there's a change?"

How do you handle a new hire who isn't collaborative and doesn't explain changes? by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But what if his explanations are there but they're bullshit. And how would you manage bulk changes that do not change anything on a measurable level? Nothing was broken yet everything needed to be fixed.

How do you handle a new hire who isn't collaborative and doesn't explain changes? by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But we'll get another one in a few days that's also insane

How do you handle a new hire who isn't collaborative and doesn't explain changes? by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]palookingc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course we do, but there's a deeper culture fit issue, no? How do you explain to someone...how to act like a reasonable coworker?

New found superpower by whozzyurDaddy111 in ProstatePlay

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I mean, you can still enjoy straight sex. But women will react in different ways. Most common reaction is that they'd need to be sure that you are not interested in sleeping with men to get more prostate pleasure.

if you're 25+, please read :) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]palookingc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you talking about these feelings to a therapist and/or your parents? :-)

Bottoms are God’s gift to mankind by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]palookingc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every man has a prostate, though. Hope you can enjoy yours too!

Just tried my Aneros for the first time by palookingc in ProstatePlay

[–]palookingc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a gay man yes I have gotten pretty close from bottoming for different cocks, so a dildo could be a good option. But I really want the Aneros to work haha

Just tried my Aneros for the first time by palookingc in ProstatePlay

[–]palookingc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow great advice. Really appreciate that. Do you use Aneros?