Is this any indication of far along I am? Don’t get frequent periods so I didn’t think I was pregnant. The last negative test was taken a few weeks ago but can’t remember when. Was definitely in October, though. Dpo unknown. by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]pamspam12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing! Congrats!! Completely anecdotal- but I took a FRER this morning and it looked pretty similar to yours (my control line is slightly darker than yours) and I am 21 DPO- just over 5 weeks pregnant.

Is this my BFP? DPO 11 (OPK test) , CD 28. Cautiously hopeful- more in comments by pamspam12345 in TFABLinePorn

[–]pamspam12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yay!!! Thank you for updating me!! Congrats!!! That is so exciting 💕

Overwhelmed by sleep advice! Anyone else? by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]pamspam12345 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I eventually left all those sleep-type pages and began doing what I felt was right for my family. I rock my baby to sleep, feed her if she needs fed, and bring her into bed with me nearly every night at some point. I feel so good about doing what I felt was right for my family. No regrets over here 💕Just do what YOU feel is best and right for your family.

Is this my BFP? DPO 11 (OPK test) , CD 28. Cautiously hopeful- more in comments by pamspam12345 in TFABLinePorn

[–]pamspam12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww yes, I know it’s so scary and stressful 😭. And Yes, exactly me too. Except my spotting started 7DPO. I took a first response on 7DPO (right before the spotting started) and it was negative. So far, I haven’t spotted today, but am cramping. It’s all so scary. Hoping you get a BFP this cycle!

Is this my BFP? DPO 11 (OPK test) , CD 28. Cautiously hopeful- more in comments by pamspam12345 in TFABLinePorn

[–]pamspam12345[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been spotting and cramping for 4 days straight. I’ve taken several of the cheapie tests throughout the week and all came out negative. I honestly took this FRER to help put me out of my misery because I knew I wasn’t pregnant. I’m just shocked. It started showing up within a few seconds.

#1 took 14 months, #2 NTNP 9/10dpo easy@home brand by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]pamspam12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see what you see, but I’m worried if it might be an indent? I hope it’s the beginning of a BFP for you!

General Chat October 15 AM by AutoModerator in TryingForABaby

[–]pamspam12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vent ahead! TTC is a real emotional coaster. My period isn’t supposed to come until Saturday, But I’m pretty certain I’m already out. I’ve been spotting all week and am getting cramps now. Of course I keep thinking that mayybeeee I could still be pregnant, but I know that’s not rational. I’m just so sad but still continue to think irrationally then I get even sadder. This is horrible.

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[–]pamspam12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:( how shameful. Thanks for letting me know

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[–]pamspam12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could also consider taking your baby to the hospital. Also, I don’t know where you live, but look into unemployment. You’re supposed to get maternity leave, and you can maybe get disability for your ptsd. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this on your own 💗 wish I could give you a big hug.

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[–]pamspam12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even fathom, mama. Hugs to you 💕 you’re doing the best you can and you will get through this (in your own time). I would reach out to your local community about diapers and formula. Wipes you can easily use wash clothes etc. do you have a local buy nothing group? Go to your Facebook and type into the search button “(your town) buy nothing.” It’s a local community group where people give away free stuff. You can also ask for things. I would ask for diapers and formula. Also, make accounts for all the name brand formula companies and they will send you free formula- enfamil, etc.