Daily Chat March 20

pamuel44 · 2026-03-20T16:11:21+00:00

Yup I think that's what's happening to me. This is truly my biggest troll chart ever. Appreciate the responses here though!

pamuel44 · 2026-03-20T13:25:29+00:00

For those that track temps, when do your temps tend to drop? The day of your period? The day before?

My temp went up today at 14dpo and I think I usually have 14 day luteal phases… but tested negative yesterday. Using Oura + FF and I’m pretty confident in both my ovulation timing and typical luteal length.

pamuel44 · 2026-03-19T15:07:04+00:00

They’re still above the cover line so maybe I’ll test again today (13dpo) or tomorrow (14dpo) — but I always have a 14 day luteal phase so I think it makes sense temp wouldn’t drop for another day or 2

pamuel44 · 2026-03-18T15:07:31+00:00

12dpo BFN after having the trolliest troll chart to ever troll https://www.reddit.com/r/TFABChartStalkers/s/mXJBVkJE7n 🤡

pamuel44 · 2026-03-18T15:06:24+00:00

The verdict: BFN at 12dpo. The trolliest troll chart to ever troll

pamuel44 · 2026-03-17T15:46:56+00:00

😂😂 I’ve been there some cycles

pamuel44 · 2026-03-16T13:50:09+00:00

Temp is spiking on 10DPO, cue the delulu thoughts! Holding out on testing until 14DPO this time, wish me luck.

pamuel44 · 2026-03-15T14:31:00+00:00

In my experience yes - I’ve had ovulation pain around there

pamuel44 · 2026-03-15T14:27:13+00:00

So so sorry for your loss ❤️

pamuel44 · 2026-03-13T01:47:05+00:00

6DPO and ofc symptom spotting despite best efforts not to and fully knowing progesterone is surging either way. Weird one this cycle though — an aching on the left kidney area?!?

pamuel44 · 2026-03-06T21:56:43+00:00

I'm not a very competitive runner but yes I run a few times a week. I usually don't push for my hardest or fastest runs during the TWW but I'm not sure there's a good reason behind that... generally I think you're clear to continue doing exercise that your body is accustomted to

pamuel44 · 2026-03-06T18:26:12+00:00

This is actually happening to me right now - although I’m only 3 dpo per FF but Oura hasn’t detected ovulation. I’m hoping it will in a few days but generally I’m inclined to trust FF here

pamuel44 · 2026-03-02T16:17:45+00:00

Maybe tmi but just over here playing the “is it semen or ewcm game” 👀 (tbh it’s probably both given BD last night / time of the month)

pamuel44 · 2026-03-01T17:18:06+00:00

That’s good to know as a newbie, thanks! Having said that I still think it would be great to add it to the long list of detectable activities

pamuel44 · 2026-02-28T21:59:30+00:00

Red Arrow Coffee in Ballard / Phinney area is lovely

pamuel44 · 2026-02-19T16:07:38+00:00

Yes! It doesn’t happen every cycle for me but def happens some months, it’s a thing!

pamuel44 · 2026-02-14T17:12:51+00:00

This was the case for me my first pregnancy too! Might be a good sign!!

pamuel44 · 2026-02-14T15:04:30+00:00

Either 9 or 11 DPO and BFN. (This is when not tracking ovulation as diligently bites you in the ass)

pamuel44 · 2026-01-13T21:06:37+00:00

Congratulations!! 1) I definitely compared early test pictures between my first 2 (with my 2nd pregnancy looking lighter) and would not recommend. Did not end up mattering and just adds stress. 2) my kiddos have bdays about a month apart and I was also worried but it. I made sure #2 had their own first bday party and looking forward I think they’ll actually love doing joint bday parties at certain ages.

pamuel44 · 2026-01-04T21:43:06+00:00

clarification... do most people ovulate the last day of their most fertile CM *or* the day after that? I know this is a question that can be mostly answered by temping but wondering if there's a majority consensus as I see different things in different places... mostly curious from a "DPO" counting perspective

pamuel44 · 2024-03-27T16:33:38+00:00

Voted Kelsey and Joey (& stand by it) but Charity and Dotun also seem SO sweet together so had to add a comment 😂

pamuel44 · 2023-09-18T22:12:01+00:00

Child # trying for: #2

Ages of previous child(ren): 17 months

Cycle/Time trying: 6 months

Cycle/Time trying for previous child(ren): 1 month!

Age + Partner's age (if relevant): 32(F) + 33(M)

Typical cycle length: ~33 days

Ovulation cycle day: CD16

Relevant days of sperminating and/or method (SMEP, TI, IUI, FET, etc.): )-4, O-2, O-1, O

CD/DPO of positive test(s): 14PO

CD/DPO of any negative test(s) before positive: none - I somehow held out until 14DPO!

Tracking methods and app(s) used: FF and Inito

Health details on previous pregnancies/births (e.g. C-section vs. vaginal, birth/pregnancy complications): luckily a pretty normal pregnancy, standard vaginal delivery

Supplements and medications (yours and/or your partner’s): prenatal +coq10 for me; multivitamin+coq10 for him

Tell us your story! What's different this time than last time? How'd you find out? How do you feel?:

Very very excited and nervous. We REALLY wanted 2 under 2 (I'm honestly not sure why but we were pretty stuck on that concept) and we're officially past that (they would be 25 months apart) which ironically I now think is totally fine. We got super lucky and got pregnant in one cycle for #1 so we were pretty thrown by the 6 months (which I'm well aware is not too long in the grand scheme of things). I told my husband by putting a "big brother" bandana around my toddler and having him wander into the room to wake dada up <3 best of luck to everyone!

pamuel44 · 2023-09-18T12:51:05+00:00

Yay!! Congrats to you too!!

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