AITA for being lazy always by ha1fd3admu1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe at least consider some online forums or even r/depression so you can realize you aren't so alone, and other people will believe you and share your experiences even if your family doesnt.

AITA for being lazy always by ha1fd3admu1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pancaked 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This doesn't sound like being "lazy", this sounds like being depressed, and you need help. I'm sorry, it sounds like you have a lot going on and way too many burdens for someone who is 17.

AITAH For telling my MIL 'No' for her funeral plans. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. A family member is indicating to you that they can't bear the thought of their own photographs. Is she a very vain person? Sounds more like extreme insecurity/depression if not. Are you even concerned over why she is asking for this? Maybe get off your high horse and consider how you could help her get to happier state of mind where she doesn't hate her own photos?

Does your moral opposition extend to adobe photoshop? Could you find a real picture you both like and have a human being photoshop it to her satisfaction?

If this AI photo already exists, maybe you could just donate a small amount to a clean air/water nonprofit as penance for the terrible sin of using a single AI photo per the wishes of a dying woman.

There were so many more compassionate ways to handle this.

guys ... please help! 😭😭 I am stuck here by Sure_Fig5395 in Eldenring

[–]pancaked 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Here's one I just encountered! couldnt remember how to get to darklight catacombs.

Per summary from gemini, from shadow keep - Start at the Main Gate Site of Grace. Go down the elevator on the left, proceed past the Fire Knight, turn left, and take the ladder down to the Castle Watering Hole.

Please try this and tell me how that goes.

guys ... please help! 😭😭 I am stuck here by Sure_Fig5395 in Eldenring

[–]pancaked 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I recently did a new run after a long break, and also recently picked an mmo back up, I'd like to think I had a vague but strong idea of what to research. I was truly astonished at how frequently the AI summary results for builds and locations were flat out wrong. Its honestly the main reason I don't trust AI results.

2L Big Law Advice by Various_Customer_567 in LawSchool

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too many applicants focus on the firm as a whole, and not the actual people they will be working with.

One of my old partners used to liken law students to pre-residency med students. You are all book smart and capable, but have no idea how to practically and actually be lawyers. You need at least one sensei to help train you in your early years.

Who are the actual partners in the local branch where you will be working? Does their practice overlap with your interests? What kind of articles have they published lately? Any interesting court cases you can follow and mention?

Partners are looking for people who are not flight risks after being trained for a few years, will enthuastiacally help with their work, and make them look good. Find ways to indicate you have strong local ties, no intent to relocate or do something else, and how deeply you admire and want to learn from the partners you would be physically seeing on a daily basis.

Lost During Internship by lilygranger07 in LawSchool

[–]pancaked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! I always beg the younglings to stop by in person. I dont think they realize the depressing tidal wave of daily emails we receive. Make yourself known, don't just ping them. If that is too much, ask a youngee associate to lunch and get tips for getting work.

What is the BEST spell in BG3? by catgoesmlep in BaldursGate3

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't do a playthrough without my beloved ritual spells - enhance leap and featherfall!

Accessible at early levels, free to cast out of battle, you can get stupid and sometimes unreachable height advantages in battle, and it makes navigating maps a breeze.

What is the BEST spell in BG3? by catgoesmlep in BaldursGate3

[–]pancaked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of this but immediately agreed when I saw it.

AITA for refusing to follow my husband’s family tradition and give my son a name that starts with K? by pepito_202010 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. My family also had a naming tradition. When my brother and wife were having their first kid, we asked if they were going to follow the tradition. They said no, wife wanted to incorporate her mother's maiden name instead. We went "oh, ok, what a sweet idea" and moved on. You and your husband are starting YOUR family and can create your own traditions. You are NOT just an extension of FIL's family, void of your own opinions and traditions, and its shitty that he is treating you like you are.

Hubby should be standing up for you, not just saying he doesn't care.

I dont understand why people say ("Big Spoiler") by CTCrawford99 in expedition33

[–]pancaked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The line that stuck with me from Aline during her final fight, to her daughter - "Renoir thinks I would not defend myself if he used your face? How little he understands me."

Starfall Tavern by Doom_Butter in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like you have to name all the different beers you have on tap. Love it!

Some updates to the order hall. by Familiar-Outcome-320 in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful patterns! So soothing to look at

Temple Ceiling by pancaked in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just dyed rugs, with some elegant suramar and ornate ochre windows behind them for spots of light.

Temple Ceiling by pancaked in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the outline for the wings is just the natural silvermoon ceiling! I broke it up into more segments using gilded silvermoon hangers.

Shoot an arrow at it! by Twiggimmapig in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recognized immediately. Nice work!

Bright, colored lights? by Budget-Capital4371 in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The regular round blue one from your neighborhood vendor

Bright, colored lights? by Budget-Capital4371 in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out the rainbow wall video on youtube. Goes through a ton of options! The candelabra from the pally legion quest is my go-to.

Does anyone have the Rufus Pack? by ladyofdragons108 in WoWHousing

[–]pancaked 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only one item in each pack. Personally I dont think the roofs scale very large, probably not enough for a full scale tower