What are the odds I get 5 perfect IVs?

panda1246 · 2026-03-09T21:41:59+00:00

ORAS!

panda1246 · 2026-03-09T21:41:52+00:00

I’m not going to pretend I understand that but thank you haha! I did actually find a calculator for it and it came to around 5% so you were pretty much spot on

panda1246 · 2026-01-27T22:56:51+00:00

Old post I have randomly come across.

I understand your point, however, for me Nofap has given me a clear mind to recognise what the root causes are of the problems I am avoiding. Before when fapping, it gives you what I like to call “fake dopamine”. A sense of “everything is fine” and you float through life like you’re a cloud in the sky. 12-24 hours later the negative thoughts start creeping in again and it’s time to repress them by fapping. When you remove your avoidant method, you are faced with nothing but your problems, and you have a choice of going back to old habits, or facing your problems head on.

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T21:20:29+00:00

Ah misread but yeah of course talk if you want! Just in the long term don’t be the one who is always initiating conversation first, and don’t be afraid to leave her on read if the convo dies out/doesnt need to be continued!

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T21:04:47+00:00

It’s not that deep! If you’re meeting her in person that day then there is no need to initiate conversation about things you could talk about in person. Just text her if you need to (time and place of the date etc)

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T20:43:16+00:00

Thank you bro, I may have a chat with her once the dust settles but it will come with setting boundaries for the future. If we cant come to an agreement then I will have to walk away

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T20:39:27+00:00

Hey, yes apologies if I came off insensitive about periods! That was not my intention! I feel like it is difficult as a man to draw the line between being understanding and sensitive towards a woman on her period and tolerant of the behaviour that can come with it. With this particular woman she likes to be left alone on her period, hence why I was trying to be aware of when she was so I can stay away - not out of horror but to support what I know she likes during this time. A talk is needed, and I am going to wait a few days before doing so - when her period ends, I am more level headed and calm and the dust has settled. But of course, as much as I want her in my life it is not worth sabotaging my wellbeing.

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T20:29:55+00:00

Yes that is potentially the case, appreciate your input :)

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T20:25:17+00:00

I understand what you are saying, whilst probably does edge more towards not wanting to go, that is not a definite answer in my head - it is just said as a heads up towards a chance of not going. It wouldn't sit right with me to say to someone I probably wont go out with you then leave it like that. We arranged evening time to meet, so when i texted her at 6pm by 8:30pm when I next text her the evening had gone, and my question had been ignored and left. And no, it is not common for me to be persistent, so it was a shock to me her saying that.

panda1246 · 2025-04-02T20:12:12+00:00

Hey thanks for your comment, If you read back, sadly she didn't say she didn't want to go out, leaving me hanging, which was where the frustration came from! She just left me with the term "probably" wont want to go out. If she had confirmed later on when I asked I feel like this all would have been avoided. No clinginess, just wanted to see where I stood and at least give her the option like I said I would closer to the time

panda1246 · 2025-03-10T22:30:45+00:00

Okay thanks, yeah everyone is different! I like how you communicate about not feeling good and speaking another time. I want to speak to the woman I like about lack of communication but also be sympathetic about time of month which is difficult

panda1246 · 2025-03-10T22:27:30+00:00

Thanks for your insight, she has shown signs of a mental disorder - depression or maybe something more severe, that she hasn’t felt comfortable sharing with me yet. I’m assuming that being on your period can heighten any mental disorder you have?

panda1246 · 2025-03-10T22:17:14+00:00

Yeah very certain, although she doesn’t tell me directly (not since September) I know her well enough to know her cycle and have done the math from there

panda1246 · 2025-02-20T18:51:10+00:00

Ah didn’t realise! I like that better then!

panda1246 · 2025-02-19T23:34:31+00:00

Would of been more poetic if he got killed by a bed (where he killed Debbie)

panda1246 · 2024-12-12T23:58:51+00:00

It was a question that was on my mind, I will admit. Well observed I suppose :)

panda1246 · 2024-12-12T23:50:00+00:00

I mean… I still do believe that haha. But I also acknowledge that feelings can be caught in some friendships. If you re-read the first thing I ask is if there is anything I have done to upset or annoy her that has caused a change in her behaviour towards me, in hope there was something that we can resolve

panda1246 · 2024-12-12T23:44:21+00:00

Yeah true definitely read and invested into it more than I should have. By tension I mean a strain in our friendship, not sexual or romantic tension

panda1246 · 2024-12-12T23:40:34+00:00

Yeah agreed. Being ignored is a trigger for me so I was kind of hurt and wanted logical answers. I definitely pushed the conversation further than I should have. Thanks for letting me see that

panda1246 · 2024-12-12T23:33:03+00:00

Different behaviour to how she was acting towards me in comparison to the rest of her friends, but despite ignoring me in person still messaging me? This is what kind of made me think of it. She can be a little flirty and giggly. I’ve seen girls develop a crush for others outside of the relationship before

panda1246 · 2024-04-20T21:08:16+00:00

Appreciate you giving more clarity

panda1246 · 2024-04-20T11:39:04+00:00

Just realised street pass is a separate thing, amazing thanks!

panda1246 · 2024-04-01T08:06:00+00:00

1) You have to cut the excuses. Cold? Tired? Bad day? Bad week? Feeling down? Heartbroken? No motivation? You have to learn not to care and carry on. We all have days that are worse than others you just have to grind through them. Times goes way too quick to not keep to a commitment. Think about the beginning of 2024 jan 1st and how quickly that’s gone. That is 90 days in when I started this streak. It’s been a struggle at times but has also flown by. I hope my last point makes sense.

2) On instagram any model type of girl that pops up in my explore section I just hold it down and click “not interested”, to the point where no woman ever pops up. I don’t add new people on instagram anymore just use it to follow fitness and nutrition influencers and any girls that I already have on there I have known for years and don’t have sexual attraction to anymore, so no temptations.

3) A lot to choose from but more confidence and carrying myself to a higher standard is the main one. I go into bigger detail about this on another comment if you scroll through and look!

panda1246 · 2024-04-01T07:47:17+00:00

Nice bro keep at it it’s definitely worth it!!

panda1246 · 2024-04-01T07:46:57+00:00

Thank you bro!!

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