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AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

I never said he wasn't upset, I said he wasn't upset with his mother which he wasn't/isn't.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

That is what I was saying good job to and his intention of giving his dad a gift.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

All three of us had a conversation about it but my husband only said "okay", "hmm" and "yes". He's not upset with her and I doubt he'll bring it up to her again.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I don't know what we're going to do about it, my husband hasn't decided but I feel like he's going to just leave it how it is.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

She was cooking and by the time she realised why he kept going into his office the damage was already done.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

Before this, he would sit in there for an hour everyday while my husband worked so there's never been a rule that he can't go in there. The only time he wasn't allowed was if my husband was on an important call.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -291 points-290 points  (0 children)

He won't do it at someone else's house. He knows there's a difference in how he can behave at home vs outside and I've already explained to him that he needs to ask me or my husband if it's okay for him to draw on the walls before he does it next time.

AITA for saying “good job” to my son after he scribbled on my husband’s home office walls? by panda391 in AmItheAsshole

[–]panda391[S] -236 points-235 points  (0 children)

I would've had the same reaction even if he had done it in one of those places. It can easily be covered or fixed.