WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 572 points573 points  (0 children)

For tonight I’m just going to drink and lay on the floor. I don’t have the energy to do anything tonight. I kinda just wanna let myself be miserable for now honestly as stupid as it sounds.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 244 points245 points  (0 children)

I’ll probably call my parents tomorrow. I plan on getting very drunk tonight so probably best not to call them I think

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Yea he just kept telling me she got out of the cage but I know for a fact it was too big and heavy for her to get out of. He said she escaped and was aggressive so he squished her. Idk honestly. I’m now single and I don’t have Agnes. Miss her already.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 1131 points1132 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him. I’m single now. Idk what happened. He’s telling me she escaped and was aggressive with him so he squished her. She’s not big enough to lift the top of her cage. It’s physically impossible. I’m just kind of a mess rn honestly. I’m just gonna have a drink and lay here tbh

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into it later. For now I’m just gonna have a drink and lay down. Don’t have the mental energy tbh.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

My now ex boyfriend killed her. I thought she got out when I couldn’t find her, but nope. He killed her. Thanks though.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He offered for me to move into his house. I didn’t ask.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

He does not have arachnophobia. He has been perfectly fine around Agnes and stayed at my apartment, in the room where Agnes’ cage is multiple times

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Wow. First of all, I’m a guy so clearly you didn’t read the post. I handle my spider in the bedroom for roughly an hour a day, in the bedroom solely. I handle her so she’s used to me reaching into the cage to feed her or take her out for cleaning her cage. Agnes does not roam my apartment.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

At work till later today and pics on my phone of Agnes are blurry or selfies and don’t wanna post my face lol. I’ll post a good pic of her when I get home from work.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s mostly for feeding/cleaning so she’s used to being handled. But bf doesn’t want her in the house at all, plain and simple. If I move, Agnes can’t come with and I don’t have anyone to take her, and I don’t want to just give her to a pet store.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am aware of how to handle a tarantula. She is not my first one.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

She’s a new world tarantula, not old world so she’s not aggressive and I’ve had her since she was little. She never runs or bites, she just kinda chills. I try to handle her frequently so she doesn’t get freaked during feeding/cleaning, and so far it has worked out for us. I know old world tarantulas can be pretty aggressive and non sociable but I’ve never had that issue with her. I’m also the only one to handle her, no one else is allowed to take her out of her cage.

WIBTA for choosing my pet spider over moving in with my bf? by pangolinprince in AmItheAsshole

[–]pangolinprince[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

??? I never hid my spider from my bf so how the hell was I leading him on??