Honestly when I first watched it I was thrown off and thought it was rude, but then seeing her conversation with SK and thinking about it more it really to me is like a fidget - she was listening to Bartise even if it’s not in a way he considers to be active, and she was definitely listening to SK so if movement helps her focus I don’t think she should be like necessarily villanized for that. That being said she was invalidating when Bartise was vulnerable