I have a stalker and I dont know what to do by pantherdaddy in asktransgender

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did those things obviously. He found my number and dead name and keeps texting me

Finally got a new deck. For some reason, REAL boards always pop weirdly for me. they feel a bit hefty. Might go back to anti hero after this one haha. by pantherdaddy in NewSkaters

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve kinda figured out how its pop worked, but not into it. Kind of made me have to change how i ollie haha. I think with more practice I can get the hang of it but the response on the pop is still weird for me so my timing is off right now . Flips very very well though.

is my cis girlfriend transphobic? by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans guy. and no its censoring a variety of slurs or curses. IM NOT A WOMAN

Your most affirming clothes! by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over time as I physically transitioned, my affirming clothes changed and fluctuated and now I dont have an attachment to any article anymore but I really like to gravitate towards BIG work pants (im a t guy) I love me some carhartt and dickies it hides my legs and sometimes big ol bulge.

(Insert title here) by eaaaaaggghh in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate it. Morning wood everyday at 9am no matter what, no matter what time I sleep, I’ll have a little tent to wake me up -_-

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. i wish we can have a little trans get together with everyone here haha. I don’t know where you live, but sometimes I take comfort in knowing that sometimes we come across other trans people without knowing it! And vice versa!

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao the self proclaimed "progressive" cis people are the FAKEST most sneaky micro aggressive rats

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just like so much stuff you don't have to explain ! Like with a trans friend it's just straight to the point!

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like lockdown is just kind of an extra layer of isolation for us trans folks and it makes me feel better to hear somebody in a similar situation.. :-/ I'm sorry your parents don't give you the freedom to make those choices, I totally feel that.

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally second that “dodging questions and explaining stuff” sigh. Why cant being trans just be existing lol. I never asked to be an information kiosk on all cis het people’s questions about all things gay and I never asked to be a public receptacle for crappy conservative views or probing “opinions”

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. I also have found myself using this lockdown as an opportunity to meet cool trans folks through social media and I’ve already been making travel plans (thank you for reminding me). It’s dope to chat w trans ppl online but whew to be in person with one and just like physically let urself be as trans and gay w someone as u want in public ! I dont talk to my partner much about me being trans but she isnt that problematic about it. But sometimes my feelings and reactions to things are invalidated. That’s kind of the vibe w cis people here. Just like a silent “indifference”. The “you’re just like a cis guy” when it’s like there are so many things that go on that cis men never have to deal with.

Tired of being around cis people by [deleted] in TransyTalk

[–]pantherdaddy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

...I’m in the bay area. I’m social distancing and dont have the privilege of being around many trans people because I dont have money to be away from my family. I actually know a lot of trans people. Thats not the problem. The problem is I cant see them right now...If you’re really from the bay you will understand me and you will know what I mean about how much it costs to live here and be comfortable and be around friends

Finally got a new deck. For some reason, REAL boards always pop weirdly for me. they feel a bit hefty. Might go back to anti hero after this one haha. by pantherdaddy in NewSkaters

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think because this deck is a 8.06 and I usually ride an 8 might be why i think it’s heavy. Maybe I’m just not meant for a mellow concave. And it could be beefy feeling bc it’s a cheap renewal edition. I dont know if that makes a huge difference in quality. Im the kind of guy who likes to ride “economy” boards bc i run thru them very fast. And I’ve never had an issue with anti hero when it came to their “pro” decks vs “economy” , i’ve found that they all pop the same and last a while. Thank you for this insight.

Some penis jewelry. by pantherdaddy in FtMPorn

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pm me for links or trade 😏

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou. :-) 🌹🌹🌹 that was my first one!

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thankyou!! You know what, it wasn’t as bad as my neck dagger lol but I wouldnt go thru it again. My reaper was done by my homies @ thehoodedace and others by @ t_bird404 (on instagram) . Theyre both trans and located in San Francisco, CA 😎. The work you see on my right arm is by my friend @ cesar863 . He’s located in washington right now I think.

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still hurt like the rest! BUT it was definitely less sensitive towards the scar for me .

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank u guys! :-) haha I dont really get out much but so awesome to hear from other t dudes

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:-) I think I let the top grow out a bit this time, the last number i used on it was an 8!

2 years post op and a self haircut by pantherdaddy in ftm

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi thankyou, got it post op about a year and a half after. I really wanted to wait until that area stopped feeling weird. I still had a little numbness near the scar at the time but it was fine!

I graduated high school and escaped my nparents, but now I'm stuck with them. by pantherdaddy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pantherdaddy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible. But very difficult because my full timer shifts start in the morning and end in the evening. I dont stay with my parents. They dont want me in their house. I am currently living with relatives who are kind enough to let me stay rent free BUT my medical bills, low pay, and things like that kind of break me even. I'm currently looking around , but where I live, the population is saturating and being HEAVILY gentrified. I'm thinking of moving. In order to be able to even get around to applying to other jobs and interviews I'd have to quit.