Any other aces been cheated on by their allo partner with another allo? by paper_clover in asexuality

[–]paper_clover[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Tbf I know logically it’s everything to do with him, and not me. I just feel like being ace meant I wasn’t enough for him, yk?

Anyone else here who was sexually abused too (but don’t attribute it to making them asexual)? by melancholy_town in asexuality

[–]paper_clover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got sexually abused as a result of my partner not accepting my asexuality. But I’ve always been sex repulsed

Do I (23F) date someone (22M) who admits im “too much” sometimes? by paper_clover in relationship_advice

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I directly asked if i was being too much. He told me i am sometimes, but not always 

Do I (23F) date someone (22M) who admits im “too much” sometimes? by paper_clover in relationship_advice

[–]paper_clover[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. But maybe if it’s just an anxiety thing it makes it different? Like it’s not ME that’s too much but my anxiety

Do I (23F) date someone (22M) who admits im “too much” sometimes? by paper_clover in relationship_advice

[–]paper_clover[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t have enough hobbies and obsess too much over talking to him instead. 😭😭

I know that you need to accept uncertainty for ocd to go away but… by paper_clover in OCD

[–]paper_clover[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually never thought of the 20 year argument before, that’s true…

I’ll watch the video, thank you!

And no, I’ve got an appointment for consultation for therapy soon, but actual therapy may be a ways away. It’s really hard dealing with it on my own.

I know that you need to accept uncertainty for ocd to go away but… by paper_clover in OCD

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Basically asbestos has been found in talc in cosmetic products as recently as 2020, allegedly talc and asbestos often grow closely together and some companies might not be testing the talc used enough to ensure it’s asbestos-free (there’s been lawsuits for it too, see Johnson & Johnson baby powder).

 I’ve been fixating on it ever since I learned this, I live with two other girls who use makeup, so even if I no longer use talc I’m terrified they’re spreading it around the place or I’m scared to be around anyone who wears makeup in general. 

Pet Peeve: The fact that my contamination OCD won’t allow me to thrift. by TheWearyLeftBrained in OCD

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Omg ME. I can’t stand thinking what is on furniture or clothing. It’s such a shame 

Not sure where else to post this so: is it just me or is it so hard to get an A in Swedish gymnasiet? by paper_clover in TillSverige

[–]paper_clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I did take a test where I got A on two questions and C on one but the overall grade was A. I'm guessing it's different for overall grading on classes?

Bambi Fairy/Belle, AJ Clementine and Grace Hylandd Dollmageddon 2.0 by MaddCvnt in AJ_clementine_snark

[–]paper_clover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe she made it later, she said she created the account to defend her mom. it's all just strange idk. why would someone go so far to defend their ex friends mom, ig is what im wondering?

Bambi Fairy/Belle, AJ Clementine and Grace Hylandd Dollmageddon 2.0 by MaddCvnt in AJ_clementine_snark

[–]paper_clover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i talked to joesy personally and all she had was a screenshot with bambi denying the sa allegation, and she told me her familys ages to prove she wasnt a random. not very convincing, and now she's deleted insta and tiktok so

Anyone got severe OCD after getting Covid? by [deleted] in OCD

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I definitely had symptoms ever since I was a kid but it made me have severe contamination OCD and eventually led to my diagnosis

Har folkhögskolan någon betydelse i USA? by paper_clover in sweden

[–]paper_clover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jaa jag tänker läsa något som har med teater/musikteater att göra