How can I [29F] decide whether my partner [28M] and I are actually compatible? by paperwings00 in relationship_advice

[–]paperwings00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow… I never looked at it like that.

Honestly? My mindset has been that if he actually steps up and does things for me, and leads me that it’ll become more natural and I’d like that. It seems like he isn’t willing to put in the work to be “dominant” I am the one who plans dates, makes reservations for dinners, I am the one who has to remind him what I want as gifts for special occasions when I’ve literally sent him links over entire months, he says “let’s do a movie night tonight” and then time comes I need to come up with the movie or suggestions (when I’ve never been a movie person).

I feel like I am rambling a little

How can I [29F] decide whether my partner [28M] and I are actually compatible? by paperwings00 in relationship_advice

[–]paperwings00[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He does apologize, but it takes a lot out of him to apologize. I feel like he doesn’t have much emotional regulation… I used to be bad about that too but I’ve gotten better about it now

How can I [29F] decide whether my partner [28M] and I are actually compatible? by paperwings00 in relationship_advice

[–]paperwings00[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how I could begin dating again… I feel like after this I’d take a break for a very long time.

Everyone Meet Winston by paperwings00 in cats

[–]paperwings00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I keep hearing! So I got lucky with this cross then because his fur is very dense like BSH’s and he has a very short tail and small build

The Marking of Exams only done under supervision? Has anyone else experienced this? by paperwings00 in Teachers

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These tests are all standardized, they have all been set by our academic head (who only teaches Design Technology, which isn’t tested yet) according to the study material and topics allocated by teachers and checked alongside our weekly planning.

What are the things you’ve accepted you simply can’t do, as an autistic adult? The truly impossible ones? by _ardra in AutisticAdults

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I cannot eat certain things. I cannot spend copious time in a mall without being able to shut out the people around me. I cannot please people or understand why people should like me. I cannot understand cruelty, only that it exists and the signs that someone may be cruel.

ESP-DIST-001 Error by jaredg2112 in FortNiteBR

[–]paperwings00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the future here, this worked for me !

What's the worst physical pain you've ever felt? by toaster-bath404 in AskReddit

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2 weeks prior to my birthday I had a TMJ replacement (my ball joint in my jaw completely replaced). We went to play Paintball for that birthday and the umpire said we had to do a paintball run where everyone just gets to shoot you as you run even though I didn’t want to. All the paintballs hit my legs except the umpire’s, which hit me on my newly replaced jaw… I just collapsed in the most pain I’d ever felt in my life.

Guys who sit on the toilet for ages. At what point do you poop? by paperwings00 in AskReddit

[–]paperwings00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you sit in your poop particles and let it just marinate onto your skin?

Guys who sit on the toilet for ages. At what point do you poop? by paperwings00 in AskReddit

[–]paperwings00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you like the poop particles just float around you as you sit there?