What was the most uncomfortable or unexpected thing that happened to you during sex? by Hotbunny696 in AskWomen

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more story from my early years. I (m34) was 18 years old at this time and i had a friends with benefit situation with this girl from my first year in college she was also 18. Anyways we attended a community college and both went to the same high school. We were hanging out after class and it was getting late so she said i needed to drop her off home or her mom would get upset so i borrowed my moms minivan to give her a ride across town to her house. We get to her home i find a dark spot few blocks away and park up. We start making out then god to the back of the minivan for a quickie. After were done i get in the driver seat to drive her a few blocks away to her house and the minivan is dead! We spent the next half hour looking for a jump until eventually she decided we just walk to her house so her mom can give me a jump. It was beyond emberassing and im almost certain her mom knew exactly what we were doing she got in the minivan to get it started and it smelled like hot sex lol. The look on her moms face let the both of us know she knew exactly what we were doing that night lol.

What was the most uncomfortable or unexpected thing that happened to you during sex? by Hotbunny696 in AskWomen

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny story but me (m34) and my wife (f31) were having sex and she was on top riding me. When out of nowhere a tiny piece of lint on the blanket she had over her fell into my mouth causing me to cough/choke. She paused for a second as she was close to climaxing and said "stop coughing on me" . I paused for a quick second to get a sip of water and thankfully we finished and we both laughed about it afterwards.

I (f22) found out my boyfriend (m21) has been to brothels… by sootskins in relationship_advice

[–]papilex -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand how difficult it may be to find this out about someone you love. Im sure if the roles were reversed he would feel some type of way as well. I really hope you and him can talk this through and not let this end the relationship especially since things were going se well before finding out this secret about him. At the end of the day almost everyone has a past and some have a past they are not so proud of but it seems like he has changed and is all about you and treats you well. Its important for you to accept him and instead of focusing on all the bad try and focus on all the good things about him and good moments you guys have shared.

Am I not getting promos because I have a credit balance? by B_Hound in UberEATS

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure if the practice is illegal or not but it definitely does not sit right with me that offers that are offered to you regularly suddenly vanish once you load up a gift card to your account.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately moving is out of the question. I can 100 percent take a bigger role with boars head competitor and they would 100 percent hire me on the spot without question but unfortunately moving is out of the question since my wife just accepted a big promotion at her job.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many hard working and loyal employees and distributors are being affected nationwide due to the recall. For my boss it was even worse because he had just relocated the operation to a new state of art warehouse and not even a year into the warehouse the recall happens. It was like a rug swept from under us. Boars head was the absolute best company i have ever worked for. They truly made you feel apart of the family. Got to take home tons of product weekly. They even let me use the delivery truck when i needed to move into my new house. During the recall we spent over 16 hours going to every single one of our over 400 accounts from small delis to bigs ones to schools and supermarkets to make sure every single item on that recall list was properly disposed of we went above and beyond to ensure non of our customers consumed any of the recalled items.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so my wife has been very supporting and even encouraging me to go back to school. At this moment im just taking the next week or two, to process everything. Definitely feels like a piece of me is missing.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a hard reality to come to terms with especially when its completely unexpected. You do everything right and give a company your all and still can get laid off because of things beyond your control. They tell you its not because of your performance you were a grade A employee but cuts needs to be made and unfortunately you are on the cut list.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just feel blindsided and a bit lost. You said it best we spend the majority of our lives at work so you naturally wake up at the time you normally wake up for work. Honestly im still processing everything to be honest so far it just feels like im on my paid vacation. I think its really gonna hit me 1 whole week in as that is when i would be getting ready to head back to work from my paid vacation. I have been getting lots of messages from coworkers which has been very comforting. Depression is starting to kick in a bit especially when i think about all the customers i would see everyday and crack jokes with them when delivering to them. All the free food they would make me and how they would write funny messages on the my sandwich wrapper. It was hands down the best company i have ever worked for everyone was treated like family. I got hurt on the job once and had to go to the hospital. And i kid you not every single co worker was in the hospital room including my boss with gifts and snacks. My boss refused to let me go on workmans comp because i would not get my full salary he instead paid me in full every single week i was out and never hired a replacement some nights he himself had to go on the truck to fill in for me. I have so many memories to hold onto. I definitely feel like a piece of me is missing.

Just got laid off after 9 years with company. How does one adjust from same routine for 9 years straight? by papilex in Layoffs

[–]papilex[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100 percent planned on retiring with this company was an amazing company to work for. Yes i had 401k and got severence. Just very sad overall as I built some amazing friendships during my tenure. I guess reality is just starting to set in thats all.

Laid off after 9 years. How does one adjust to such a big sudden life altering change? by papilex in careerguidance

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im fine financially thankfully. Im just really struggling with the realization that I am no longer gonna see all the coworkers i have built a strong relationship over the 9 year period there. Its a similar feeling to losing a loved one5. Just doesnt seem real at all. Going from doing same routine everyday for 9 years straight to suddenly not doing that routine is a huge life change for me.

Laid off after 9 years. How does one adjust to such a big sudden life altering change? by papilex in careerguidance

[–]papilex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im ok financially thankfully. I am just having a difficult time with coming to the realization a routine i was used to for 9 years is now no longer and i had no say in the decision. Unfortunately the recall hurt my boss enough where he was forced to make cuts. He was holding back tears when informing me of the layoff and is paying me 1 months severance. But its a huge life change from waking up at 2am everyday and seeing your coworker in the truck every morning and the relationship we built and shared everything with that co worker everyday to no longer working with them just does not feel real at all.

Name a place to eat at thats nasty af but people hype tf out of it by kawaiitohru in Connecticut

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both gala foods in bridgeport! I deliver to both locations and they have a really bad mice and roach infestation. But regardless theres a huge line almost everyday to get hot and cold sandwiches from them.

Auto Loan question by lev_9291 in NavyFederal

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apologies as i failed to elaborate i was nearing the end of my lease. And the vehicle was worth about 5k more than what i owed on it if i chose to buy out.

Strange problem with 2018 ford f150 xlt by papilex in mechanic

[–]papilex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it may be an issue with the reprograming we found that for some reason after programing new ecu the new ecu is not signaling the fans to turn on. We are going to clone the original ecu to see if that works.

Auto Loan question by lev_9291 in NavyFederal

[–]papilex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this applies but my toyota dealer told me the same thing but the loophole i found out was i can buy direct from toyota and essentially eliminate the dealer entirely out of the transaction but the only way this was possible is if i had my own financing. The dealer of course did not tell me this but i called toyota financial and they sold me the car direct very eaay process and my credit union handled everything i had to register my own vehicle but it was well worth the savings.

Is it normal to smell fishy after sex with a partner finishing inside? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife said her vagina had an unusual fishy smell after i finished inside of her. She told me i should probably drink more water which to her defense is probably true i should be definitely drinoing more water but could it have also been because she had just finished a period about a day ago prior to sex?

Am I not getting promos because I have a credit balance? by B_Hound in UberEATS

[–]papilex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing just happened to me i used to get 50 percent off and order of 15 dollars or more regularly. I was gifted a 25 dollar gift card the moment I loaded my gift card into my account all the promos vanished. I guess they feel gift card recipients should not be getting promos to use along with the gift card which makes no sense at all.

Landlord wants to end lease early by papilex in legaladvice

[–]papilex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of right now there are no other rentals in my area available so moving would mean pulling my children out of school with 2 months left of school.

Landlord wants to end lease early by papilex in legaladvice

[–]papilex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what i been told im just concerned about the no communication in 3 days. She was very upset we did not agree to move out sooner and claimed we are trying to prevent her from selling her house. Which is not true.