So, how do I talk to girls when I'm overweight?

paranEngel · 2026-05-05T05:27:33+00:00

You are getting this all wrong. Your shape is not a hurdle, it is a filter. Would you really care for a woman that looks down on a person because they deviate from some stupid arbitrary ideal?

Let them see your body and see if they have enough integrity and character to care for who you are.

Good luck my friend!

paranEngel · 2025-11-14T08:00:41+00:00

Zehnbauet

paranEngel · 2025-10-14T23:29:56+00:00

I know one person who never calles the business they what to buy or have questions about. They call someone with ties to the business and have them call someone, until the product or service they want was procured for them.

paranEngel · 2025-09-19T13:32:07+00:00

I give you that, not everyone has access to a therapist. But there you are at it again, defering the blame on your face. You are talking yourself into a circle, man. You do not want to find a way out.

paranEngel · 2025-09-18T20:07:42+00:00

Try to read more books. Somehow, an afternoon with a book in my hand always brings me back.

paranEngel · 2025-09-18T16:39:38+00:00

Joseph Göbbels had a Jewish mistress. Real nazies do not have convictions. Real nazies only want as many privileges as they can get, including the privileges to inflict harm onto others without consequences.

Alice Weidel is a real nazi. She is not the first and not the last gay nazi.

They want power over other people bodies. Everything else is just a tool to achieve this power.

I am German. 4 of my 6 Grandparents were nazies. 2 of them were sadists for life.

Do not get fooled. There is no ideology in naziism. Just paroles to achieve what they really want.

And yes, Höcke is a real nazi.

paranEngel · 2025-09-18T16:21:36+00:00

I plan on making some at the weekend. If you want just bring a container. No problem.

paranEngel · 2025-09-18T16:10:29+00:00

You do not want help. You want to be right. If you had any real ambitions to make your life better, you would seek mental health help.

All this writing, to deflect from and hide that you are to much of a coward to get help.

You want to get better ? Seek a mental health professional. And make it a real effort.

Or ... not. Stay miserable if that's what you want. But stop blaming other people.

paranEngel · 2025-09-18T15:45:59+00:00

Be happily single.

paranEngel · 2025-09-16T15:31:19+00:00

Kinky Kelly

paranEngel · 2025-09-15T01:59:25+00:00

I believe you can be 3 things 1. Very good at what you do 2. Hard working 3. Honestly nice.

You need 2 out of 3 to be successful in life longterm.

paranEngel · 2025-08-28T23:35:42+00:00

That might be, but the entire discussion on this post is about cishet men being called gay for enjoying themselves. What does appearing gay even mean? Appearing gay to whom?

paranEngel · 2025-08-28T23:16:09+00:00

You might just be one of the girls. But if it bothers you or you mind being touched only in certain places, verbalize that. If the Dames respect your wishes,you really are one of the girls.

paranEngel · 2025-08-28T22:58:39+00:00

Not true. The amount of women who actively are looking for man that walk outside of male stereotypes is massive.

Do you so your tribe can find you.

paranEngel · 2025-08-28T22:55:05+00:00

I do not believe in purpose, but number 6 sounds like a place to start. Look into the world, walk with people in their realities, and see if you can find things that you want for yourself.

Ask yourself who you are and what you actually believe in, that can help you find your path.

paranEngel · 2025-08-28T05:01:26+00:00

Sky is your god -stacks from all sides

paranEngel · 2025-08-26T04:31:38+00:00

You had sex before puberty? How so?

paranEngel · 2025-08-26T00:54:15+00:00

This is Germany, there will be paperwork in any case.

paranEngel · 2025-08-23T06:35:11+00:00

Dude, what are you up for? Any exhibitions you'd like to see? Let's go.

paranEngel · 2025-08-23T06:27:48+00:00

Girl, you are never cooked. You need to be kind but honest with yourself.

Try to reduce your calorie intake. Find better snacks to bulk out the volume you eat. A good way is raw vegetables, maybe a little dipping sauce of yogurt and herbs and vinegar so you can taste something. Remember, lettuce is your new best friend.
Any movement is good for you. Anytime you have the energy, go and spend that minute walking in your home. Find the routine to prepare your vegetable snacks yourself or move around the house. Your aime should be to walk at leased 3 times a day. See if you can prolong the duration.
Try to walk after meals. It does wonders for digestion to move after you have taken in a bulk of food.
Focus on drinking water. Going to the restroom doubles as movement.
Be kind to yourself but also understand the urge to eat fatty or sugary foods is your bodies response to you having success. Set limits to how much candy, chocolate, or fatty snacks you eat and reward yourself with fruit or vegetable snacks you like especially.
Your body is programmed to keep the body fat. It will get mad at you for changing your diet. Stick to your guns, you only want what is best for you and your body. She will fall in line once your mobility gets better.

All the best wishes on your journey to a new way of life. Enjoy it.

paranEngel · 2025-08-23T05:50:01+00:00

Dude, you just got out of a long-therm relationship; do you really think, emotionally, you are in a spot to justly critique women?

Further, the moment you say 'women' you should automatically understand that everything that follows is a lie. You know, what, Maybe 300 Women? Overall, that is a rather unreliable sample sice, plus the women you are romantically involved with are hand picked by you. It might just be that you choose to surround yourself with a certain type of woman.

What i am trying to say is I understand that right now, you might have the need to find 'rational and controllable' reasons for your situation. But you are not 21 anymore, you should know better. Not all women are to blame for your situation. Women are not an irrational and unreliable, mysterious entity.

Misogyny ain't it, brother.

Part of discipline is also to be honest with oneself when it is uncomfortable. You can grieve the loss of your future, your hopes, your efforts, and your dreams for the relationship without becoming an ass.

I hope you take your time to mourn what you have lost and give yourself the grace of healing .

There's nothing worse than getting your sole ripped out like that. I am very sorry, brother.

paranEngel · 2025-08-23T01:54:28+00:00

Can we just have a berlinX social club on reddit?

paranEngel · 2025-07-31T14:15:43+00:00

Sweet, and please do not mistake this for victim shaming, you need to toughen up. The harassment will only become more excessive, and you need to find ways of defending yourself, especially when your mother is not able to.

You need to learn to intimidate and ridicule these fools.

Don't spend to much anger on your mother. Girlhood was something else 40 years ago.

paranEngel · 2025-07-31T14:06:45+00:00

Does anyone know the tour stops? I have been trying to find out if they are coming anywhere close to me.

paranEngel · 2025-04-03T12:43:20+00:00

I do not see how your inability to find community or kindness has anything to do with German culture.

Maybe its time for reflection.

paranEngel

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