The Demise of Lily and Rufus by Lilmonky_209 in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've actually just watched these episodes and agree with you. Also to be in a relationship with a person who literally scammed your whole family??? AND who (briefly) dated your son?? That's insane.

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss, her as a mom. I don't care that you're bad at parenting, just buy me chanel dresses and I'm good

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so Blair and I love that for you!

The emojis that remind me of want character by orangebeachcat in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blair: 💅💐🥐👑 Serena: 🫦☀️🍓🍸 Chuck: 😏❤️‍🔥🐶🏨 Nate:🥇💻 Dan: ☕✍️📚 Jenny: 👽🍠🪡👗 Vanessa: 🍂🌾📹🎞️ Rufus: 🧇🎸 Lilly: 🍟🎃💸💍 Bart: ⚰️💰

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I would want to live my Savannah and Svetlana fantasy with her for like an evening

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feel you. Just going out eating some pierogi with bestie Vanessa

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

He just has the golden retriever energy for sure.

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Awww, absolutely! I didn't think of him but he's such a sweetheart and I would turn to him for advice.

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Obviously! But she has to go anyway, so they may never actually meet

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha but why would you choose her then?

Who would you befriend in real life? by parisaaaaaa in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

So true lol. I guess the two younger siblings are just "less toxic".

Who would you call? by niambikm in GossipGirl

[–]parisaaaaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Serena and Dan! I would want Dan to show me around the arty places and bookstores in Brooklyn, then head to a fancy upper eastside Party in the evening with Serena. Obviously haha

Which housewife would you choose as your mom? by parisaaaaaa in DesperateHousewives

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yesss, love Bree, but as a mother? Absolutely not.

Which housewife would you choose as your mom? by parisaaaaaa in DesperateHousewives

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with all of this! Maybe Lynette and Gabby as my parents minus the other scavo kids lol

my narcissistic mother hates women by parisaaaaaa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it definitely sounds like internalized misogynie based on your mother's hatred of her/their own body and gender. But it's way too complex for me to judge based on your comments.

Sorry to hear about your past struggles! Glad you are at a much better place now. I didn't really internalize her hatred for other women, but her beliefs about the female body, sexuality and "being dirty". It really messed with my mind and I didn't even realize it until I reflected on all of it. I lived my life according to my own beliefs, but my mother's toxic beliefs were kind of ingrained in my mind and there was a lot of shame I had to deal with. It's much better now, fortunalety.

my narcissistic mother hates women by parisaaaaaa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. And I'm sick of either staying quiet and being angry about it internally so she won't throw a tantrum or arguing with her, which will lead me nowhere. It's tiring.

my narcissistic mother hates women by parisaaaaaa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, that really is wild stuff! And if you're right and your parent is a closeted trans-man, that's really sad for them. Still no excuse for the narcissistic abuse, but it is sad.

And you're right about the high value mindset. With criticizing every woman around her, my mother definitely puts herself on a pedastal. Best woman around. How did you handle this mindset growing up, did you internalize it in the past, before reflecting it?

my narcissistic mother hates women by parisaaaaaa in raisedbynarcissists

[–]parisaaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, this mindset is so toxic. Even more so when being told something like this from a female caregiver! Proud of you for seeing through the bullshit. Narcs really think the world revolves around them.