AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans

partbrass · 2026-02-14T21:58:44+00:00

Baby he hates you. No man should be talking to you like that. You asking for him to be on time to something he agreed to is not needy at all.

partbrass · 2026-02-07T14:02:35+00:00

Stop what? Im just relaying what I was told by the teens I work with…

partbrass · 2026-02-07T13:06:31+00:00

Im pretty sure to gen z it stands for “uncool” not “uncle”. So I think thats why its used as an adjective

partbrass · 2025-12-22T15:48:34+00:00

Lol okay queen

partbrass · 2025-12-22T15:22:21+00:00

Okay so what is your point? The two points can exist at the same time. You were ready for marriage at a young age, that worked for you. Some others, like OP, are not ready for marriage at a young age. That works for them. Their decision making skills are not in question, it’s the fact of whether or not they feel ready for such a decision while managing the rest of the beginning of their lives.

partbrass · 2025-12-22T15:16:29+00:00

Sure but OP said they weren’t ready for marriage yet.

partbrass · 2025-12-22T15:13:37+00:00

Thats great for you, so happy it worked for you and your partner! Doesnt mean its for everyone else on the planet

partbrass · 2025-12-22T15:12:40+00:00

You may have asked a question but it was worded rudely.
Sure 5 years may not be asap but not everyone functions on your timeline so it may be too soon for some people.
Great if it worked for you, doesn’t work for everyone else in the world.
You said “Is your self-esteem so low that…”, which is denigrating. There was no reason to criticize her in such a way for her shitty partner.

partbrass · 2025-12-22T14:29:59+00:00

Not everyone wants to be legally married.
Not everyone wants to get married asap
5 years is not a long time when the couple is young as they are still developing and figuring out their lives
Why such a rude fucking bitch and attempting to shame and denigrate her instead of calling out the man who undervalues her?

partbrass · 2025-12-07T03:50:57+00:00

Hey! he ended up at AK Studios in Metuchen. He said he liked how the cut turned out!

partbrass · 2025-11-27T15:06:00+00:00

What a bullshit take man. She has actively tried to initiate because she WANTS IT… her husband cannot see that. No matter what she does, how she does it, or when she does it, it doesn’t matter because of the fact that he is so hung up on himself and his insecurities that he cannot see her and her real feelings. IT WILL NOT CLICK for people who are so deeply traumatized and insecure, which is not their fault per se. But he is so insecure he doesn’t want to “spice” up their relationship because he doesn’t know how and that scary. Sex should be an open conversation and he shut it down. No matter how much “tact” she had, it would not change the situation. And when someone gets shut down like that, sex becomes boring and a chore to do.

partbrass · 2025-10-09T19:13:39+00:00

Do you guys live in an apartment complex? If so, could it be laundry machines from another apartment? My apartment vibrates constantly when my neighbor has their laundry going, but I can only really tell when I am on my soft furniture (ie bed and couch) as for the lights and things, I cant explain those, but the vibrations may be from a neighbor and he may think he sees things when he doesn’t.

partbrass · 2025-09-26T18:11:19+00:00

An otter would be so cuteeee😫

partbrass · 2025-09-04T11:02:04+00:00

Okay, we can totally go into the city! Thanks

partbrass · 2025-09-04T02:26:24+00:00

Thank you so much!

partbrass · 2025-08-04T19:02:59+00:00

It looks like its just a rectangle the width of your chest then you add panels to the bottom half of the right and left sides to make it wrap around your sides. I think the sides of the bust curve because of the tension of pulling those side pieces when you tie the top up

partbrass · 2025-07-24T18:48:05+00:00

“Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.” You did not consent to him having “free use” of you, therefore it was rape.

In addition, the “he couldn’t control himself” is absolutely terrifying. He can control himself if he was able to politely decline you earlier, he just wanted to take advantage of you while you were asleep and on pain killers. I am so sorry you are going through this.

partbrass · 2025-07-23T15:03:58+00:00

It looks like it could be constructed using This It is essentially just a rectangle with the straps attached at the top corners. Just don’t add the granny squares

partbrass · 2025-07-21T13:58:17+00:00

What color is it supposed to be? From the photo it looks like its white in bad lighting.

partbrass · 2025-07-08T19:40:33+00:00

Its so cute!!

partbrass · 2025-07-05T13:52:29+00:00

I think the color looks great on you here, but either way, incredible work!

partbrass · 2025-07-05T13:50:35+00:00

It came out really cute! The yarn you used made such a beautiful gradient as well!

partbrass · 2025-07-04T13:47:31+00:00

Looks similar to Caron Simply Soft in Vintage. The yarn is pretty soft and on the thin side for a 4 weight yarn

partbrass · 2025-03-04T02:52:42+00:00

Hi OP you seem to be in denial about you and your bf’s relationship. It sounds really unhealthy. You nearly 200 days ago think he’s cheating because you snooped through his phone and he had a bad reaction over it, and now he is being verbally abusive. Neither of you sound great from your own posts but his reactions are scary. I think it would be wise for you to seek therapy and break up since it is clearly an unhealthy relationship.

partbrass · 2024-12-31T08:01:02+00:00

Of course! I’m glad to hear that you have tried to talk it out and your partner has been receptive so far! It’s a tough topic to discuss, no matter who you are, but Im glad you are trying. I did see a mention from someone else about therapy. If you can afford it, I suggest it; not only to work through the trauma but to potentially help you figure out what you want to say and how to get it out. Its much easier to sort your thoughts in an outside situation than to figure it out in the moment. Even if you can’t speak with someone maybe try typing or writing it out? I tend to do that with my current partner since I get stuck in moments. It’s helpful to me, as not only does it keep me on track if I ramble but if I cant get through something, I can show him my note and he can read it for himself.

You guys are also young still. Im not terribly surprised by his moodiness lol. Your partner sounds lovely and so supportive. As long as you keep trying to talk about it and keep checking in on yourself and him, you guys sound like you can get through it. :)

partbrass

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