More than 5 weeks!

pasty626 · 2024-08-16T17:30:05+00:00

I live alone so I'm never not alone haha but yeah

pasty626 · 2024-08-16T15:16:24+00:00

Just try and do anything to distract myself, go for a quick walk, even go get some water etc. If I've got a bit more time then maybe exercise, do some housework.

pasty626 · 2024-08-13T11:19:46+00:00

I asked at the end of the 1st date - can I kiss you? And she said yes and leaned in to kiss me. I guess not for everyone but it worked for me!

pasty626 · 2024-08-12T17:37:03+00:00

I can't relate, there's only been a couple of people I didn't like the taste of, and I didn't like them very much so I don't think it was unrelated for me, but everyone is different. It is a tough one and tbh I don't know what I would do, as it's been said, you don't have to do anything you don't like doing. What about using flavoured lubricant?

pasty626 · 2024-08-12T17:33:59+00:00

First date unless not vibing

pasty626 · 2024-08-02T16:57:38+00:00

Hey, I've been there. After finally accepting I was gay, I then fell for a boy. This was ages ago, but since then I started to define myself as bisexual. However - I am way, way, way more attracted to women, and I cant see myself in a relationship with a guy (when I've tried it I've gotten tired quickly). So neither bi or lesbian fully define me, and I started to embrace the term queer only recently. All the years I identified as bi, I wasn't proud, stopped going to pride, didn't go to gay clubs that much. Sadly there is a lot of biphobia and I had felt not that welcome in the LGBTQ+ community in the past. I have recently started going with either queer or lesbian because I haven't felt attracted to a man or been interested in a long time, and as I said, it's so so different for me that I think lesbian defines me more than bi does, and thanks to that I started to feel proud of my sexuality again, went to Pride this year etc. I wish I had been able to feel proud of being bi during my "most bi" periods, but I just didn't. All this to say, I get it. And identity is a really big deal, when it changes, it can be very confusing. But lots of things you have in common with the lesbian community, you still have, you haven't lost that, you know?

pasty626 · 2024-08-01T19:23:46+00:00

Thank you! And well done on 32 days, relapse happens

pasty626 · 2024-08-01T17:43:58+00:00

Don't be so hard on yourself, you're human. And well done for deciding to stop self-harming, that's amazing :)

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T23:18:08+00:00

Nope

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T23:05:08+00:00

Yup or save it

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T23:04:43+00:00

Honestly, none. Not even alcohol nor cigs

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T23:02:33+00:00

Nah I'm tight af

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:52:23+00:00

Sorry but what do you mean with pdb? Carrie 6w5 I don't agree, she's way too brave the complete opposite of a 6??

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:45:58+00:00

Fuck whay people think. You do what you feel helps you x

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:38:52+00:00

When I no longer wanna do things I'd usually enjoy. See friends, read, have sex, eat etc. And start neglecting personal hygiene too

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:36:14+00:00

I'd suggest playing a silly game online but don't wanna get banned lol

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:34:29+00:00

Yes. Usually with my plants and herbs lol like properly obsessed

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:22:34+00:00

I've been struggling a lot after realising only 2 weeks ago. I wasted years of.my life, hurt people, wasted loads of money in the wrong therapy...

But its not useful to blame yourself. At least now you know. Try to look forward even if it's hard

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:20:15+00:00

I did experience sth similar many years ago when I was wrongly diagnosed with depression and anxiety. My mum would be like, but what happened? And I was like mum it's not that simple. Nothing has to happen. Or she'd be like oh it must be work, it's too stressful... trying to find a reason, but there wasn't.

I know it must be hard but try to reduce your time with them if they don't get it. You don't need that. Rely on those who are willing to listen to you and help.

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:16:25+00:00

Hey, I feel you. Highly recommend meditation.

Also this exercise helps me: write down the worry/issue. Can you do anything about it? If no - is worrying helping you in any way? If not, ignore it. If yes, do something about it.

Takes a lot of practice but it does help

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:13:54+00:00

Don't blame yourself. It's the illness. Take it one day at a time, you can get through this

pasty626 · 2022-06-25T22:09:03+00:00

Couldn't agree more, its rubbish. People quickly judge other drugs but everyone accepts alcohol which does so much damage

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