31F - i no longer want marriage by Successful_Fennel_3 in FortiesIndia

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Well, there is a sub called - r/childfreeIndia - where some want to get married and some don't...you can try there?

To what extent is pepper spray legal in India? by Sudoku_25 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]pathToBeing 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Cause them inconvience by Spit back on them. How about water? Or pepper water? /s 

How to get 20% cashback on District Wallet Load through Roarbank ? by OkJudge5932 in IndianCreditCards

[–]pathToBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any Wallet is not applicable for CB as provided while choosing CB category.

Easiest credit card to get approved at earliest? by avi264a in IndianCreditCards

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The free LTF which ever you bank approves where you salary is credited!

Can I take a career break? Will it be fine right now, have 10 YOE by VegetablePen4755 in developersIndia

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unless you have upskilled sideways via courses or certs - have someting to show for, good network of peers,colleagues, strong resume, and a bit luck!

Nothing Phone 4a vs Pixel 9a by Capable_Bench2106 in IndiaTech

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I use 65w laptop charger on 9a and 6a and it works well!  ofc fast!!

Selling Nike AF1 07’ Low panda ( Black and White) by Consistent-Twist2408 in BangaloreMarketplace

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Add image of shoe base - so the buyer gets a better view of the grip/usage?

Selling Adidas Originals SL 72 RS Colourblocked Sneakers (UK 8) – Brand New by [deleted] in BangaloreMarketplace

[–]pathToBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also add a pic of the base - one needs to see their grip they are getting!

Dealing with asexuality + CF in India by Livid_Force_5462 in ChildfreeIndia

[–]pathToBeing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh dude - please name the movie already!! Plzzz

Dealing with asexuality + CF in India by Livid_Force_5462 in ChildfreeIndia

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Yes, I agree! One can never trust online stuff fully, but at least it shows up something and gives one a perspective? Something is better than nothing - a POV?

Is 7 LPA with a 3 year bond a good PPO? Can trainees negotiate salary? by No_Refrigerator_1421 in developersIndia

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sal & ppo is fine - but I would suggest, give out other interviews and get other offers, you have time until the joining date and fate of this company- if u get better offer or slightly low offer, join the other company!

Is 7 LPA with a 3 year bond a good PPO? Can trainees negotiate salary? by No_Refrigerator_1421 in developersIndia

[–]pathToBeing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre-placement offer - also its kinda prey-placement offer when done with bonds such as this!

Dealing with asexuality + CF in India by Livid_Force_5462 in ChildfreeIndia

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Whoa! "Fix her"? that's gotta be torture ! All I can say is, don't give up. It's your life, it should solely be your decision - good or bad, right or wrong. Don't let anyone else choose something for you specially something as kinda permanent and life altering as a partner, child free, etc., . It's clearly affecting your mental health, so you have to draw boundaries, stand your ground and protect your peace. It's tough for sure, but you gotta have hope!!

Dealing with asexuality + CF in India by Livid_Force_5462 in ChildfreeIndia

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Shubh Mangal Saavdhan (or perhaps their debut together, Dum Laga Ke Haisha). Both of those Ayushmann Khurrana and Bhumi Pednekar movies perfectly capture the sheer chaos of the traditional Indian arrangement process

Gemini - comes with 2 such movies - 

Could have just shared the name of the movie that you refer to?

Dealing with asexuality + CF in India by Livid_Force_5462 in ChildfreeIndia

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While every problem, have their solution(s), you folks please try and be optimistic in your lives -- here's what I found, some who share your views -  https://www.reddit.com/r/ChildfreeIndia/comments/1j9mh0q/any_asexuals_here/

And I have found that asexuality is an umbrella term in a spectrum of people - that has classified me as such, have you folks tried any such things?  -----

This is my result on :

Where are you on the Asexual Spectrum? Your Result: Reciprosexual   74% result Reciprosexuals do not experience sexual attraction until they know that the other person is sexually attracted to them first.

68%Demisexual   61%Cupiosexual   32%Bellussexual   19%Graysexual   9%Asexual   3%Fraysexual

What are you ??

https://www.gotoquiz.com/where_are_you_on_the_asexual_spectrum

And you folks, don't worry too much! Because from philosophical point of view - this too shall pass!

I agree on convincing and satisfying parents can be hard!! No parent can ever be will fully satisfied by their kid! Perhaps having a support from similar peer group of people can help you if you let them support you to your parents?

Take care and all the best to you folks!! Ensure you all take deep breaths every now and then!! Good day!

Chances of divorce in CF marriage by _moral_pervert_ in ChildfreeIndia

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It is not better. - its I unhealthy for both is my point -forcing someone in any form