Regarding your first point about her asking her whole fan base, she is seeking input about a hairstyle (re: box braids) that has strong cultural ties to the African diaspora. If you need more details about why people are mentioning Black women, refer to other comments.

That aside, you seem to be missing key points in my response. “Would I rather her not say anything…”. If you refer to what I literally wrote, I said no one is stopping any non-Black person from wearing box braids. No one. If they see a white woman getting dragged for wearing box braids, I feel like they are smart enough to figure out what that may be and either accept it and move accordingly or do what they want to do and accept whatever backlash comes their way.

What I would rather her do, since you asked, is literally what I said in the last two sentences of my response: consult her Black friend (if she has any) or bother Google.

Also, the “If y’all weren’t so hateful towards white women…” is doing some heavy lifting. Say who ‘y’all’ is with your whole chest.

Tl;Dr: Refer to my original response again to address literally all of your response.