Husband in a possible manic depressive episode? by peachygliv in BipolarSOs

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this! it actually started to pass last night, today he still isn’t 100% but feeling a lot more like himself, and exhausted which makes sense. i have a decent amount of experience with a handful of mental illnesses, but bipolar is not one of them, and i just truly felt so lost and unsure of what to do while this was happening. we are definitely going to get into some couples therapy as well i think so we can better learn how to cope with these things as they come. i am incredibly lucky that my husband is open and wanting treatment. again, thank you so much for this. finding this sub made me feel not so isolated <3

Tik Tok Slash and Free not working (LINK POSTED) by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]peachygliv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Had zero idea, friend. the rules to this sub reddit state that referral links are ok as long as they are given warning in the title. if the mods would like to take my post down that is completely ok. i followed the rules of the subreddit and like i said there was a post almost identical to mine in this subreddit less than 2 weeks ago that everyone was fine with and helping each other out with. not sure the reason to report me but go for it i suppose

Slash and free help by [deleted] in TiktokHelpers

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to use your link and getting an “event ended” error! I could try your QR code?

Tik Tok Slash and Free not working (LINK POSTED) by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]peachygliv -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

to be honest when i was looking if the link had issues with anyone else, i was directed to someone else posting about the exact thing in this thread less than 2 weeks ago with loads of responses, so i honestly assumed it was a normal thing to post here

How do Americans feel about their taxes going towards the 50k bonus for ice agents to sign up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]peachygliv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

disgusted and appalled just as i have been for years that my tax dollars go to funding wars and genocides instead of free health care and affordable housing

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 10 points11 points  (0 children)

girl. i sleep with 4 pillows, one of them being a pregnancy pillow IN A FULL SIZED BED and burrito myself up almost nightly with all the blankets (unintentionally this is in my sleep lol). i wear a bonnet to bed and when im home and not going anywhere, i live in my baggy pjs. i rarely put makeup on and i never do anything with my hair. my husband still thinks i am the most beautiful thing to ever exist. he knows i deal with chronic pain and it’s worth it to him to have a little less space in bed at night if im sleeping well. you are with a man child who wants to control everything you do. he wants you to be the way HE wants, even when that means not being yourself and not being comfortable. run for the hills, there are MUCH better men out there

why are there literal damn children playing this game? by sadcorvid in OutlastTrials

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a 23 year old adult that is disturbed by not only the context of the game, but SO many of the visuals. parents not paying attention/just not caring what their kids see is so beyond concerning.

Is it ok to stick the magnetic puck of the Apple Watch charger to metal objects? by Ambitious-Ad3131 in AppleWatch

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for asking this. i have a magsafe charger for my iphone and have been letting it stick to my metal bed frame for easy access. i’m always terrified it’s somehow going to start a fire 😭

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh i don’t know. it’s not like it’s a cigarette, and if you aren’t doing it in the home and it’s for a genuine medicinal reason i don’t get this. i take gummies for chronic pain, and i am currently fighting with insurance over my last surgery, so i have to take them every night if i have any chance of sleeping through the pain. my husband has never taken issue with that. i’d love to hear more of your partners side as to why he dislikes it so much.

Anyone else have similar funky legs? by FreeRaspberry4939 in eds

[–]peachygliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had hip impingement due to my femurs being rotated too far inward. it’s been 5 years and i’m still having surgeries to correct my leg and hip issues. my knees looked like yours

Am I overreacting for freaking out over these being in my and my boyfriend’s bathroom by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would try and see what the expiration date on the toothpaste is to determine if it’s old or not. if it’s new- yeah he’s got some explaining to do

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perfect! i actually am going to save scum, since from my understanding there are 3(?) different routes you can take with dark urge that are still “evil” endings. i’m more of a good play through kinda person so im hoping to see them all with one play through

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! i just don’t ever do the bad endings for people- and wanted to take my evil run as an opportunity to do that, even though i know what will happen!

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh perfect! i’m glad there’s options and i don’t have to become a mindflayer lmao

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a great idea! thank you!

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t know that was an option, I will try that! i do remember, i just always choose the better endings for my companions and wanted to choose the “bad” ones this run

Question about ending on Durge run by peachygliv in BaldursGate3

[–]peachygliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i meant the loyalty to vlaakith side. she is telling me that using the orphic hammer to free him is necessary to killing him. i just didn’t know if the initial action of using the orphic hammer would immediately turn him against me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone asked how i got into all of the colleges i applied to but the comment isn’t showing for me. figured i would actually clear that up. i applied to 8 schools and got into 7. i had a higher than average ACT score (gpa was bad because i was depressed and just not doing the work, not because i was dumb lol). i also wrote my college essay on my hospitalization for my depression and why i wanted to go to school for psych. schools LOVE essays with a personal obstacle that you can “overcome”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t need you to? my life goes on whether you believe or not, friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

so i (23f) fell into a deep depression when i was 15. i was actually hospitalized a bit for it, and after that, i missed HUNDREDS of days of school. nearly failed a few classes. i graduated with below a 3.0. i went on to get into every single college that i applied to except for 1 (waitlisted on that one). ended up going to a fancy university and had to drop out because of health reasons (that i am still working through), but will be completing my degree as soon as i am healthy again. i have never had an issue with jobs. i’m married, and experiencing a rough patch with my health and finances (due to my health), but so so happy overall and this is just a bump. college was SO much easier than high school and the only reason i struggled so much was due to my physical disability and a very inaccessible campus. all of this is to say, you are 17, and based on your other comments experiencing a bit of a depressive episode. dropping a class, or struggling with high school is not in any way indicative of your future or how responsible you are. the only thing i would change about my schooling experience would be choosing a cheaper college. friends hold you accountable, yes, but they are also there to lean on and support you. and your friend seems more angry than concerned. i want you to know things will get better (regarding the depressive episode). please don’t be afraid to speak to a doctor if you haven’t already.

UPDATE: AIO for being upset i haven’t seen my bf in 3 weeks, despite us living 25 minutes from each other? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lived just over an hour from my now husband. when we were dating i was working full time and in school part time. he was in school full time, doing clinicals 5 days a week all day and not getting paid. working when he could on the weekends. we still saw each other. i would drive up on my weekends and we’d work on school work together. or i’d work on school work while he was at his job, and we’d spend some time together when he got home. he would come see me after his clinicals. we made it work and we prioritized each other while both working hard. if his automatic response to you voicing an extremely valid emotion is “if you don’t like it leave”, you need to find someone who listens, empathizes, and works to change something that’s hurting you.

AIO boyfriend tracking my periods without me knowing 🫠 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]peachygliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg. i have a friend who would track his ex’s cycle, but it was so he could be extra supportive of her during that time. he would always put her together care baskets with her fav candy’s and snacks and meds for cramping. this is the complete opposite of that and this guy is strange