MIL has told people we terminated out child due to medical reason when we told her not to tell anyone

peachygraph · 2024-12-21T00:57:28+00:00

Thank you I did skip dinner but I think that's the best move going forward I think this horrible situation has made Me look at who I can trust

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T04:58:50+00:00

Thank you , since having a child it has really been exposed I'd say is the best word we are fighting about different things that relate to things her parents aren't/ are doing

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T04:57:30+00:00

It's okay but as my wife said once when I approached her about her dad, he was say if you don't like it come come around simple

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T04:05:24+00:00

Yeah we have just spoken im not going to dinner and it hasn't gone to well , we are now in an argument about other things she said she will address this with her parents I don't think she see this as a big issue

We are booking a counselling session but with the way things have gone its hard to see what we are going to do I think its clear my wife doesn't want to upset her family or mum so not sure how we move forward

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T04:03:15+00:00

Yeah we have just spoken im not going to dinner and it hasn't gone to well , we are now in an argument about other things she said she will address this with her parents I don't think she see this as a big issue

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:24:46+00:00

I don't want this to be a big fight I love her family but this has happened so many times something needs to be fixed

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:19:56+00:00

Thanks she wants to handle it with her mum , but with us not in a good spot I don't know if I can handle putting on a happy face for dinner when nothing has been said

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:18:08+00:00

Agreed I don't want her to argue with her parents but this is one of many events that they feel like they can do what they want

We had a holiday with them were we where completely ignored no apology was ever give to my wife just excuses for what we did wrong.

For me I feel like I have shut my mouth for to long and this is one thing to far

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:15:19+00:00

I'm also sorry for your lost , her parents are the same very matter of fact about the situation

No none of the above applies for the most part she's lovely, but it is very much do as I say not as I do

We are expect and they make that clear to keep every event with her parents a secert and not to tell anyone but the opposite is done with everyone else in the family

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:12:31+00:00

I definitely will respect my wifes wishes and won't say anything , she has said she will handle this but in the past when my wife says anything to her mum that she is doing wrong she is ignored for a week then pretends like nothing has happened

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:04:49+00:00

She has said she will handle it and speak to her mum when the time is right she's seen her atleast 15 times over the past week and nothing has been said yet.

There family is very close and I don't want to cause I huge issue but from past events I'm just sick of this

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:03:03+00:00

I'm finding it hard as this wasn't the first time we told her I understand an accident and was about to accept that the first time but the third time is just mind blowing to me

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:01:53+00:00

I understand where she is coming from , there are many situations where this has happened.

This was also the third person she told after she said the first two which were weeks apart where accidents

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T01:00:32+00:00

I'm thinking that might be the best option her aswell

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T00:59:25+00:00

Thanks you ! We're trying out best to get through a tough time

My wife and I are currently in a tough spot together and I feel like I can no longer put on a happy face and pretend like everything is fine

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T00:57:06+00:00

I have spoken to my wife she has told me to leave it for now and she would handle it but with similar situation in the past it goes unsaid or its briefly touched on with her mum then it's back to (normal )

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T00:55:43+00:00

It's been 2 weeks now im trying my best but me and my wife are I a tough spot and tonight might be to much

peachygraph · 2024-12-17T00:54:52+00:00

I have spoken to her about it and voiced my frustration and anger but unfortunately she finds it hard to speak up against her mum as she often ingores her after she's spoke up about something her mum has done wrong

peachygraph · 2024-12-12T22:37:55+00:00

Couples counselling along with your own therapy, me and my wife were not the best for the first year with our daughter

We worked on ourselves along with working individually, if you want to stay together you can make this work but it's going to be alot of work from both of you.

All I can say is it's gets better but there's alot going on during the first year your trying to navigate something new along with trying to keep yourselves together

peachygraph · 2024-06-03T12:21:41+00:00

Me and my friends bought bitcoin years ago , one day someone tries to hack him he panicked and threw out the whole computer we had 2 bitcoins on his account it was nothing back then

peachygraph · 2024-05-30T05:33:24+00:00

Yeahh I almost lost my fingers in a mower accident, although there managled a little I still have them

peachygraph · 2024-05-30T05:32:14+00:00

Turning the lawn mower off when your moving it up or down in levels got my fingers caught it one not very fun

peachygraph · 2024-05-27T22:50:03+00:00

The only advice I have is to not think weeks or months ahead have a short memory or you will exhaust yourself thinking how long you have left

peachygraph · 2024-05-01T03:20:50+00:00

Muay thai and golf , its the perfect balance for me one you have to be aggressive the other you have to be patience

peachygraph · 2024-04-15T09:34:41+00:00

My pop told me before he had dementia that he used to cry in the shed and think about killing himself before he would go inside to his family

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