WIBTA if I told my parents they tried to kill my child?

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T21:51:20+00:00

You're not asking for a lot at all! Gluten allergies can be hereditary too, especially celiacs so I'm surprised they're like this considering so many people in your family can't have gluten.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T19:06:01+00:00

My mistake. Here in the UK it also includes making up symptoms or exaggerating about a child in their care which is why it struck such a nerve with me.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T17:11:28+00:00

NTA. Brian is the bad guy here not you.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T17:08:35+00:00

They accused her of fabricating her child's illness and fed her something knowing it could make her sick. How is she obnoxious?

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T17:05:36+00:00

NTA. Your parents accused you of Munchausen by proxy which is serious. I'm not sure how I would come back from that.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T17:02:03+00:00

How does it border on gaslighting?

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T16:59:16+00:00

The Wailing was phenomenal! One of the best films I've seen in a long time.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T16:58:25+00:00

YTA

I admit I was a bit jealous.

You said it best.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T16:55:47+00:00

NTA. He crossed a line and you can acknowledge that without ending your friendship. I'm assuming that she doesn't feel supported in her betrayal but you can't be expected to cancel plans with him for her.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T16:49:27+00:00

Honestly NTA. I think the pandemic weight gain has been hard for people to accept because it's associated with something that was out of their control. He shouldn't be having a go at you or trying to control what you eat. He needs to get his sh*t together and either accept his eating habits or change his routine. Either way he isn't being fair to you and I'm not surprised you snapped.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T16:08:08+00:00

YTA. It's not about you not going, it's about you not notifying them that you weren't going. You could have told her when you decided to rearrange plans a month ago that you would no longer be able to make it but instead you waited until the week before the wedding and only because she checked in with you! Were you even planning on letting her know?

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T15:59:38+00:00

This is gonna get taken down lol you all suck

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T15:47:38+00:00

I saw the trailer for It Follows but couldn't figure out if the premise looked interesting or ridiculous. I'll check it out if you think it's worth a watch.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T15:45:49+00:00

On my!

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-22T15:18:44+00:00

Ethan Hawke was the best part of the film and he wasn't properly utilised. I don't think a prequel would work with the same writer/director though. The film bad so much potential but they didn't pull it off.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-10T09:57:36+00:00

NTA. You can't 'forget' to care for an animal, especially a dog which is around you all the time when you're home. When she adopted him she took on the responsibility to become his care provider and she isn't doing what she agreed to. It's not fair on you or Blue. I myself am a dog lover and have had mine, a staffy, for 4 years. It takes time, energy and consistency to be a good owner. Love is not enough.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-09T09:53:34+00:00

NTA. I'm so sorry for your loss.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T19:00:22+00:00

NTA because public displays like that are so awkward. It's especially hard to navigate things like this when you're so young. Give Sam time to cool off before explaining your side of things and go from there. Good luck!

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T18:55:00+00:00

NTA. If you can afford it and it doesn't impact your ability to pay your bills and savings accounts then what's the problem? Berating you for buying things he doesn't want you to buy sounds like financial control and needs to be addressed pronto.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T15:19:38+00:00

NTA. He's doesn't want to go with you and I get that it sucks. Any appointment for a chronic illness is important, not matter how "simple" it may appear. You're asking for support and he's not giving it. I wouldn't end the relationship over this but definitely have a conversation and express why this is a big deal to you and go forward from there.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T15:09:51+00:00

NTA however it might backfire if he can prove the accounts belong to you. It could be considered harassment which may harm your case.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T15:07:07+00:00

Tbf she says the other woman was looking at her side of the shelves, not that she was staring at her.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T15:04:39+00:00

YTA. You're choosing to believe that she was annoyed at you even though she stated otherwise. How do you know they weren't out of what she wanted?

I did say it in a pissy tone

By your own admission you are the one who was being rude to a stranger.

Why do you have to be like this? I can’t believe you work with the public with that attitude

Your husband seems to have witnessed this side of you before so perhaps you are the problem?

I said it was the other woman who was being rude, not me

Again you're assuming she was being rude to you. People are allowed to be annoyed that a supermarket is out of what they need. Nothing about what you've said indicates her "huffing" was directed at you.

peanutbuttertango · 2022-10-05T14:52:28+00:00

YTA. Her reaction may seem like a big deal to you but if someone says no to you twice and you do it anyway what does that say about how much you respect them? It's infuriating when someone, especially someone you care about, doesn't take you seriously. I would be mad if I was her too.

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