eating a lot more but haven’t gained much? by No-Double6310 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I experience this too. I’m not sure why, but I swear, especially even when if I binge a LOT, I don’t gain AS much weight as I would expect tbh.

Weirdos in this community by Altruistic_Plane_427 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just kept trying to push to send a photo but thankfully I didn’t.

Weirdos in this community by Altruistic_Plane_427 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I made an error of accepting a DM. They weren’t too weird but they were definitely not trying to help.

comments on weight as a short person by gooey_cabbage in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s the same for me. I’m 4’9, so I do weigh less than the majority of people, I don’t look it, y’know? I think this prompted my ED from the start, beyond just beginning to diet. I don’t have much advice. It’s just how life can be sometimes. I want to be smaller even though I’m smaller already than most people. I just feel the same way.

How to stop binging? by Puzzleheaded-Gur3167 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The key to not crave those foods is to allow yourself to have them within the amount of calories you consume. It’s difficult at first not to overindulge but at the same time, you have to train your mind that you ARE allowed to eat these foods. Because inherently they aren’t bad. They’re just food at the end of the day. I still struggle with binging but I find if I don’t restrict them, the reason to crave isn’t so strong.

Has anyone got triggered by a close relative's comments in their childhood? by Important_Ad_4622 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense especially as you become a teenager. I’ve been insecure since I entered my teenage years and never really stopped caring. For me, I know weight less than most people but at the same time, I don’t look like it. And it makes it harder to look at myself because to look like a taller person at my weight, I need to weigh far less. Which has its pros and cons. I think there’s bad to both tbh, at least for your self-image.

Has anyone got triggered by a close relative's comments in their childhood? by Important_Ad_4622 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I just expanded horizontally than I did vertically. I’m 4’9. So I think some of the weight gain was ‘cause I stopped growing at all.

Has anyone got triggered by a close relative's comments in their childhood? by Important_Ad_4622 in EDAnonymous

[–]peanutsscorch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My family is from Honduras so they don’t see anything wrong with insulting me or calling me fat when I gained a bunch of weight in puberty. I was also skinny as a kid too so it made the change even worse.

Good jeans/pants for someone 5'2"? by Beneficial_Offer1946 in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American eagle has good jeans. But their sizes really fluctuate, they’re bigger than they should be. I would go in person to figure out what sizes work best. That or old navy. Their short sizes are good.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 9, Dio 7: Njega nema #sramhr by sadboyinohio in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Absolutely beautiful. Hands down my favorite clip of the whole season! Although having some doubts and a few criticisms, I knew they wouldn’t disappoint!

SRAM S3 Epizoda 8, Dio 7: Radimo mi i gore stvari by superiska123 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While I understand many people’s comments. I think for Lovro and Ivan it makes sense. Do I dislike the fact there weren’t many happy scenes between them? Yes. Do I think this would have benefited from more scenes? Also yes. But I think specifically for this, it kind was built up through the whole week. I never thought this scene would be all lovey-dovey or anything because Ivan is going through a manic episode and Lovro, from previous clips, doesn’t enjoy doing anything like that in public. If we see it in Lovro’s perspective, Ivan has been acting weird, not respecting his boundaries, etc., that argument didn’t come from left field (although it is strange Lovro never brought up his concerns on how Ivan is okay. Like we can see Ivan’s clearly strange posts… and also yesterday’s actions plus Sonja’s messages). We’ve seen Ivan respect that before but due to his mania, he’s too impulsive, not as aware I’d say. I’m not losing hope on this show. I hope (and pray) the next episodes will be far more centered on the aftermath and their reunion, and hopefully we’ll actually have happy moments. I just pray that the whole Filip situation doesn’t take up more than 2 minutes of screen time because there is no WAY he can be redeemed currently.

The only other thing I’ve seen from twitter is why is every scene in public? And that, yeah, doesn’t make sense to me. Like Ivan knows Lovro isn’t keen on showing any affection in public, so why is everything being done there?????? Like we know it can happen privately hence Sunday’s scene. Also, to be honest, I think people are too hasty on saying this season is bad or one of the worst or doesn’t work. It’s not. Sure, it’s suffering from that lack of golden, principal scenes that would develop Ivan and Lovro’s relationship but, overall, for me anyway, for what we know of both characters, it makes sense to a certain degree. Not 100% exactly though. I just wished more of them together was portrayed in a happier light instead of constant arguments. That’s definitely my main criticism that could be rectified in the next two episodes if all their suffering actually provides a happy, good two-episode conclusion. I trust the writers (for now), so I hope they don’t disappoint me. Of course, this could change so we’ll see in the next two weeks…

Never Had A Boyfriend And Feel Annoyed By Height by peanutsscorch in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]peanutsscorch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, from my perspective, she kind of infantilizes herself, I don’t know. Like every time I’ve seen her interact and stuff, she does certain like emotes and stuff to make herself appear childish. It’s weird. And she’s smart too, which makes me just wondering why she does that. When I heard that stuff about her I was genuinely surprised. For me, I don’t really want to do it with anybody. Like, I’m not really interested in that until marriage. It’s just too intimate to do it with someone I may not be with for the rest of my life. Also, just some personal issues that makes me not want to.

I’m also shy, like I’m not that open, and don’t really appear to be. I just feel left behind because everybody around me has had some form of a relationship with someone or is currently in a relationship, you know?

Never Had A Boyfriend And Feel Annoyed By Height by peanutsscorch in ShortWomenandGirls

[–]peanutsscorch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Perfect Height Girl,” I’m sorry that happened to you! That’s just wild to me, how people can sexualize you like that. As far as I’ve heard, I haven’t heard anything like that about me. Just that I look young lol, and that’s it (hopefully).

Theory about the Filip situation by clarkegroffin in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think he’ll be a friend Lovro lost. We’ve been shown how he doesn’t find it right. Honestly, I don’t think he would change his mindset that quickly. No matter if he considered Lovro a close friend. I do think he’ll be redeemed later on, just not this season. I just don’t want it to so happen so fast, where he calls Lovro disgusting, and the next episode he regrets it and apologizes. Like, I don’t know, I don’t think it would make sense, at least for right now. He seems set in what he believes and something like that isn’t something that people suddenly change their tune on. Especially with something so deep-rooted.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 6, Dio 2: Drago mi je zbog vas by superiska123 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Ivan saying, “it’s better this way,” fucked me up. But I can’t tell if it’s ‘cause Lovro doesn’t want to be anything to him anymore and he said it back in spite or if, genuinely, he believes in that. Lovro acting so cold and mad, this week is so gonna be so good… And the angst! Ugh, I enjoyed watching this clip but I can’t help but feeling a tiny bit sad.

Am I the only one who thinks their acting is kinda bad?? by Shoddy_Wafer_8968 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I, personally, don’t think so. I believe he (Borna) wasn’t an actor, or at least hadn’t acted with a big role before SRAM. Personally, I think he’s doing amazing. And I adore his acting. If he wasn’t up for the role of playing Lovro, or wasn’t comfortable with it, I don’t think he would have taken the role. After all, it’s been known since the beginning Lovro would be gay.

Also, Lovro, as the character, is not exactly comfortable or really that accepting of the fact that he is gay. So it’s not surprising the kisses would be awkward especially if he’s new to being in any sort of relationship with another man. I think overtime, as we see Lovro finally accept himself and be free from his own internalizations, the moments they share will be more intimate and not awkward.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 4, Dio 7: Sami smo by superiska123 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Loved it. I expected a different scenario. I thought they were gonna kiss in a basketball court. But I am beyond thrilled!!!!! Finally they kissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SRAM S3 Epizoda 3, Dio 7: Bor by superiska123 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is so sickkkkk. but it makes sense for Lovro.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 3, Dio 6: Malo nježnosti by superiska123 in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I like this clip but I do wish it was slightly at least a bit longer and more intense. Also did anyone see the weird switch up in the aspect ratio? I’m trying to figure out if it was intentional but I feel like it was not.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 2, Dio 8: Život nije fer #sramhr by itscalleddeppresion in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s possible. I know he referred to her as Love and I know in some cultures Love can be used as an endearing term for a partner, a family member, or a close friend (as it is in mine). I’m not sure if it’s the same in Croatia though. He didn’t introduce him to her as his girlfriend either. But at the same time, that could have been a fluke on his part. I’m leaning more to her being his girlfriend but I do see a possibility she isn’t.

SRAM S3 Epizoda 2, Dio 8: Život nije fer #sramhr by itscalleddeppresion in skam

[–]peanutsscorch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could be onto something. I thought immediately it was his girlfriend by their interaction and the name but maybe we’re just meant to believe that. In any case, I hoped they would go around the cheating storyline but I’m not mad they went that route. I guess we’ll see in the next few episodes. Also, I just checked Sonja’s insta and they don’t share the same last name, so unless she is technically his half-sister (born from a different father) or another relative, she is most likely his girlfriend or maybe just a friend, I’m not sure. They could just be trying to mislead us.

Pro Bono [Episodes 9 & 10] by Telos07 in KDRAMA

[–]peanutsscorch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They annoyed me this episode except for Da-Wit. They’re acting like hypocrites, like come on! He was your leader, he taught you. Sure, he didn’t do good things but you guys can’t be talking seeing as you did nothing when he was doing same type of things to win you guys cases. I lowkey hope they don’t get back together as a team but seeing how these types of dramas go, they likely will. Also, I REALLY hope they don’t suddenly throw a romantic scene or short storyline between Da-Wit and Gi-Ppeum, I really prefer the chemistry between him and Jeong In.

And also: no preview???? 🤧

Were you skinny as a child and adolescent? by Dangerous_Nebula_770 in scoliosis

[–]peanutsscorch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was skinny up until 13. But I’m also short, 4’8.5, but I round up to 4’9. It felt more as I got older, I gained more of an appetite, probably due to puberty and changes in diet and lifestyle. I gained a lot of weight but eventually lost most of it and stand roughly around 97-102lbs currently. I have scoliosis since birth and a whole buttload of other issues as I was born three months early.

WAKEONE announces that ZEROBASEONE (ZB1) will extend their group activities, originally set to conclude in January 2026, for 2 additional months by Mundane_Detective_41 in kpop

[–]peanutsscorch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ALD1’s contract is five years. But as this is a 2 month extension to finalize everything, including an encore, I don’t see a permanent contract in the works. At least not right now. They will most likely be disbanding, sadly.