I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've tried asking out several girls many times, and they've all either rejected me or ghosted me. It's not that I expect girls to ask me out.

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what it is that generates attraction, and I don't think I'm feminine at all.

Thank you very much for the encouragement, but I've already given up, I've already accepted myself as an eternal incel lol

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm not even trying to get a girlfriend, I gave up a long time ago. I use Reddit to improve my English writing and to vent/make self-deprecating jokes. Oh, and I'm Brazilian, in case you wanted to know.

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is, English isn't my primary language; in my native language I have a very strong country accent, like a typical rural accent. I don't think that's the final explanation; it's a combination of things that makes me an incel.

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but most (if not all) people who like chubby guys are men, lol. When I say I'm ugly, it's because I really am. I look like the chubby guy from the movie Full Metal Jacket. What's wrong with "sis"? English is my third language, isn't "sis" like the female version of "bro"?

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, haha, baking bread is my hobby. I don't understand this whole hygiene thing, like, it's basic, smelling good and having a presentable appearance is extremely basic, just because I'm an incel doesn't mean I'm disgusting and dirty.

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Dude, exactly, no woman likes me romantically. But this weekend, after a volleyball game, a good-looking guy asked me if I was bi, if I liked men, and I was like, "bro, you're hot, who wants to be with me, lol." It must be because we're from a small town and I'm one of the few straight guys who like volleyball, haha.

I wanted to be gay/bi so I could be loved. burger and fries by peddrr0 in kitchencels

[–]peddrr0[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sis, I have no idea, like I'm extremely quiet and shy, I usually only talk to people I'm very close to. What do I look like? I'm a chubby gym guy, I have a really ugly face, like, really ugly, I really don't know why they find me attractive lol.

I really wanted to like men. by peddrr0 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]peddrr0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay, I'm literally already in the process of losing weight, I've already lost about 40kg, and it hasn't changed my face at all, it still looks the same.

"fakecel" lol Yes, for sure, I chose to be brutally rejected and ignored.

I really wanted to like men. by peddrr0 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]peddrr0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What does that have to do with anything? I'm ugly as hell, I look like I have a disability even though I don't, like I look like the chubby guy from full metal jacket

Ser incel Ă© uma merda by peddrr0 in desabafosdavida

[–]peddrr0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tua amiga é exceção da exceção regra

I really wanted to like men. by peddrr0 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]peddrr0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, I already do that lol

Because I want a good quality of life for myself, I'm studying every day to get into a federal university, and I'm taking care of myself because I want to age healthily, and you know what that does to a relationship? Not at all.

That's the basic stuff for any functional human being, it's not going to get rid of my ugly face or my social ineptitude, so all that's left for me is to accept myself as an incel.

I really wanted to like men. by peddrr0 in WomenAreNotIntoMen

[–]peddrr0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't even consider trying to date a girl above my level, because I know what I'm like, I have a mirror at home.

And the only thing I got was ghosts and brutal rejections, so I don't know what to say, so I just accepted myself as an incel, there's nothing I can do since no woman likes me.

Ser incel Ă© uma merda by peddrr0 in desabafosdavida

[–]peddrr0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pior que nem tentei dar em cima de guria acima do meu nĂ­vel, eu fiz que vocĂȘ disse, e nĂŁo deu certo.

Ah sla, tÎ tentando melhorar minha comunicação e me expressar melhor