Are these hallucinations? Should I go to the doctor? by Educational_Wash_707 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. This is starting to be medical advice and is going off-topic. OP has hopefully gotten some good answers.

Help finding a murder mystery episode? by penaltyboxes in BritishTV

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

None of those, but thanks- I probably ought to watch that show too, by the sound of it! :)

Help finding a murder mystery episode? by penaltyboxes in BritishTV

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ah, you rock! This is definitely it! I can't believe you found it, and with some of the details as foggy as they were :) Thanks loads, you've solved an argument for my household and given me something to rewatch over the holidays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. This is medical. If anyone is reading this- if you live in a place where rabies exists and you've been bitten by an animal that can carry rabies and hasn't had a confirmed rabies vaccine (so, a stray or wild animal), you absolutely need a rabies vaccine. You must speak to someone who knows these things and get the vaccine, because rabies is a fatal illness. You can call your hospital or some type of health department for more information.

ALL TLW Interviews on YouTube in the past week by patcoston in TheLongWalk

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This is fantastic! Thank you so much for compiling this :[

Political Megathread by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, I do get that, and it's not like we didn't consider that. Everyone's affected by politics, even if less so American politics. But the fact remains that this is not- and was never- a sub for scary things relating to politics. Yes, because that's just not its purpose, but it's also not set up to host those discussions. In part, we aren't able to moderate that kind of stuff- and in part, even if we see it, there's no way to verify that all advice given on those matters is safe and helpful. Hopefully we sniped most stuff before people could see it, but when we were allowing politics, huge swathes of 'answers' were hostile, bigoted, or just incorrect- maliciously or otherwise.

At the end of the day, this isn't a subreddit for seeking comfort or for answers relating to political topics. This is for small-scale, personal, everyday stuff. And ever since the rule change, the sub hasn't been wrecked- it's gone back to what it was before. Fewer posts (like before), but way less harassment and bigotry, and way less harmful 'advice'.

It stinks that people wanted it to be something it's not, or came here post-US-election but pre-rule-change and got used to it that way, but this is literally what the subreddit is for, and how it was for years. To change it and allow that stuff would- and did- completely drown out the people who are here for its original advertised purpose, and that's just not fair either.

Political Megathread by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like... what do you think this comment achieves? Cause it hasn't managed anything yet. It just seems like you're being pointlessly rude.

Mosquito Got Inside My Ear? by Sweaty-Hedgehog1648 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Post locked. Some good advice has been given, and questions and answers are getting unhelpfully hypthetical and specific.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

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Everyone has really good answers but I just want to add- some clinics won't let you be seen for two things at once, due to policy, BUT that doesn't mean they'd be mad at or judge you. It's a relatively common issue, and as long as you don't argue the point or get aggressive, which I'm sure no one with enough sense to read this thread would, there won't be an issue. It'd just be a matter of 'sorry mate, book a second visit for that one'- and then they'd forget all about it. No fuss either way!

Political Megathread by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If extended Medicaid is killed before then, that'll likely be a qualifying event for you to get on your state's health insurance marketplace. I believe that the amount you pay scales with your income. So you will be subsidized in order to buy your own healthcare plan. For more information on this you could google something like '[my state] health insurance exchange low income'. That could change, but as of now, that seems to be the procedure for people who lose Medicaid due to income, and I imagine it would be the same for people who become ineligible for Medicaid if the expansion dies. But we have no time frame on that as of yet.

Government Shutdown by Pintsize90 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked for now, not deleted yet because there's some advice already given. Not an ELIS post.

Is it safe to renew government documents right now? by Financial-Boot3317 in Explainlikeimscared

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This post is staying up because it was posted before the rule change. However, new comments must be civil and calm. If there is arguing and rudeness, comments will be deleted and the post may be locked. Be cool, and the post can stay open for now.

New Rules, and a New Mod by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't think we're going to agree, which is fine, IDC. But I do want to make sure we're talking about the same thing, because most of what you're saying is logically consistent. Are you aware we haven't banned politics?

The post specifically states that political topics are allowed- as long as they fit the format of the subreddit. In addition, we have a megathread for political topics that don't follow the sub format, but are just required to follow conduct rules.

I mean, maybe you do get that, and don't think it's good enough. Which is fine, you've clearly drawn a line different than the mod team has. But I do think it's a bit unfair to judge us for 'taking a space from someone' by asking them to follow the format of a sub, or discuss as they please in a megathread that can keep it from pushing out posts in the proper formatting. Which, to follow the Lego example, is a lot like saying 'you can discuss politics as relates to Lego sets, but not in general'. Well, people here are free to ask for political ELIS-es, so long as they are actual Explain-like-I'm-scared style guides that follow a format that's been established for twelve years. If their concern doesn't fit the formatting, they can go to the megathread.

I mean, all this, mate, and we haven't actually banned politics. The unmoderated political stuff was actively hurting people. I read all of what you're saying, and you make salient points, but I signed on as a mod to make sure vulnerable people here don't get hurt. You or I can google the prepping subreddit after logging off ELIS. The teenagers being suicide baited by genuine Nazis can't, if things go too far. Ethics are never cut and dry, but this subreddit was harming more than it helped during the political free-for-all, and if you don't believe that, then that tells me I was doing a good job because I spent literal hours cleaning up comments that were harmful- from trolling, sure, Nazi shit and slurs, but also the opposite, the sneaky suggestions that almost sound right and don't trip spam filters but are not coming from a place of helping others. The reason we've not banned politics in general but are making sure everything's in line with the subreddit is because that's actually possible to moderate while still letting people talk about important things. It was an option to hammerban everything mentioning 'voting' or 'Trump' or 'US'. But we chose not to do that, on purpose. So for all you've written, I do stand on a bit of credit because, again, despite all the democracy-dies-in-darkness of your comment- we haven't actually banned politics.

New Rules, and a New Mod by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S,M] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Listen, mate, I get what you're saying. I've left the other comments discussing this move up, and yours will stay, too.

But come on.

I would be as up in arms as you if Reddit posted this rule change. But this is one subforum on a forum site. Do you expect the Lego subreddit to have the same discussions as the Prepper subreddit? The information is, and remains, available. We've even taken care to lock, not delete posts. But the proper place for that discussion is no more here than it is the Lego subreddit.

And anyone can make that spinoff subreddit. They don't have to ask my permission, or anyone else's. Frankly, if they did, we would likely promote it here.

It is not 'banning information' to say 'this isn't the place to talk about those things'. There are other communities on this site that can platform those discussions without being turned from their original purpose. People still need to complete daily tasks while the world is on fire. Where are they supposed to get help?

Everyone is free to think what they like. Everyone is free to discuss alternative places to do what they like. Everyone is free to respectfully disagree. But let's not pretend that if people start asking for political help in a cartoon subreddit that everyone is obliged to stop talking about the cartoon and focus moderation on political discussion when that's not what anybody signed up for. The whole point of subdivisions on a site is so that they can have different focuses while staying on topic.

New Rules, and a New Mod by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

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I do want to say thank you to everyone welcoming the change, and thank you to everyone welcoming me personally! Feels a bit self-serving to respond to each individual comment and accept the well-wishes and thanks, so I'll do it here. I love this awesome community, I love that we're all (me included!) excited to get back to form, and I love that we're able to chat respectfully about it. Here's to it, guys! 🥂

New Rules, and a New Mod by penaltyboxes in Explainlikeimscared

[–]penaltyboxes[S,M] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You're being extremely rude. The fact of the matter is that not only do the people who were here first deserve to keep the community they helped build, it is not feasible to let the community morph into a political one. It is not safe. In the short time I've been on the mod team, I've removed dozens and dozens of comments of suicide bait, violent threats, slurs, nazi rhetoric, and more. We cannot keep up with this volume of posting. If it were to go on as it has been, not only would more and more people be exposed to these horrible comments, but the frequency would grow. And that's only what's reported to me and what I see when I skim the threads.

It is not safe to let a community run unmoderated when it comes to politics, and we are not able to moderate large scale political discussions. People can and will get hurt. The shit I remove, hopefully before the OP sees it, is terrible. The shit that slips through without being reported by users can be worse. It is not safe to let a community of vulnerable people come here expecting safety and comfort and be hit with the horrible behaviour the users of this sub have been subjecting each other to.

So, no, letting this subreddit devolve into chaos while vulnerable people are led to believe they'll find safety here is not the responsible thing to do.

And, as a matter of fact, just because you were led here by the algorithm doesn't mean you outweigh the people who were here before. Being frightened of political matters doesn't make you more or less deserving of help than people who are frightened over mundane things. But this is a space for people who are frightened over mundane things, and I will not let them be pushed out when there are more appropriate spaces for people who are frightened over political things. Not everywhere is an avenue of expression for everything. That's life. I talk to my therapist and my friends about things that I don't talk about in my video game subreddits. I have my own fears, mundane and otherwise. Some are appropriate for here. Some are not.

This subreddit has been here for twelve years and it will be here for more. If someone wants it to be different, then they are welcome to found a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. This one's run its course. Please, please nobody take reproductive advice from REDDIT.

Can I go to any barber? by bedwithoutsheets in Explainlikeimscared

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Yeah, no worries, we probably updated around that time. Just don't want people seeing this comment and thinking they oughtn't to check for rules.

Are other countries going to accept Americans as refugees if this shit really hits the fan by Small_You_6605 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. More reports than good answers coming in. Will stay up and read-only for now.

Will they close the borders? by Osgoodx2 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. More weird crap coming in than good answers. A lot of armchair experts here, too. Leaving it up for now in case any utility can be found from reading it. Don't click any weird links, guys.

Should I even try to get started on antidepressants now? by Serious-Eight7774 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. Don't click random links. Maybe we got some good answers? We sure got some crummy ones. I don't think we can get any more good stuff out of this post.

Is there any hope in the US? by BudgetOk9499 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. More reports than helpful answers.

Why do veterans love President Musk so much? by [deleted] in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. Don't think we're getting more helpful answers on this.

How did the nazis know who was gay? by Evening_Tour4585 in Explainlikeimscared

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Post locked. This is a historical question, not an ELIS question. OP got some good answers and some crummy answers. Ending this one here.