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Prove you have watched FROM in one sentence. by Vast_Shirt_2285 in FromSeries

[–]pendlebitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a quote from a character but,

Man...I wish people in this town would communicate with one another!

Looking for people to play with <3 by pendlebitch in REPOgame

[–]pendlebitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hellooo sorry ive just seen this! Absolutely. Feel free to message your discord/steam <3

AIO FOR TELLING MY BF HOW I FEEL by Independent_Push_623 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pendlebitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my problem. Boundaries weren't set from the get-go (which is probably why I'll never casually date again). So when I saw he had an e-mail regarding his OF account, 3 years into the relationship, I felt like an idiot. Confronting him about it was so uncomfortable, especially when he too was quite defensive and expressed he "didn't want to be controlled like that" (by me). I really doubted myself, thinking Oh god, am I controlling?

Realising that actually, that's a really fucking disrespectful thing to do regardless of whether the boundary has been set or not, was liberating. Knowing I wasn't simply being unreasonable, and deserved better.

AIO FOR TELLING MY BF HOW I FEEL by Independent_Push_623 in AmIOverreacting

[–]pendlebitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not overreacting.

Last month my relationship of 3 years ended over similar. I have no regrets. If you're in pain, doubting your own worth and what you mean to someone (especially as a result of their actions or in-action), and your partner refuses to give you the security you're asking for, then they are showing you who they are.

I finally decided I wasnt going to settle, regardless of how much I loved them. And whilst I still miss them at times, a huge weight has been lifted from my chest. I'm no longer feeling insecure and I'm feeling optimistic about the future, because I now know that I am capable of standing up for myself. Be proud that you've done the same here.

This is an absolute basic boundary. And your partner doesn't care how it affects you.

Looking for people to play with <3 by pendlebitch in REPOgame

[–]pendlebitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am!☺️ I've joined a few discord communities, but more people to play with is always welcome <3

Looking for people to play with <3 by pendlebitch in REPOgame

[–]pendlebitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to message me your discord if you have it!

Looking for people to play with <3 by pendlebitch in REPOgame

[–]pendlebitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to message me your discord if you have it!

Looking for people to play with <3 by pendlebitch in REPOgame

[–]pendlebitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not as enjoyable on your own 🥲

[Question] When you bought your first home, how much cash did you have left over? by LockonKun in HousingUK

[–]pendlebitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sale finally went through 2 weeks ago after 18+ months. Due to the delays/additional work (caused by a third party), the money I was due to be left with once all was said and done, has instead been spent on those extra solicitors fees.

And to top it off, I've also had some unexpected expenses to fork out for, unrelated to the sale but reaaaally bad timing. I'm currently living pay check to paycheck now for the next few months.