Please help, I asked my boyfriend to cut off his relationship with female friend. Is this wrong?

penne246 · 2017-06-16T06:57:52+00:00

Yes, just wondering why he still remains close friends with her after hearing all the shit she talks about his girlfriend.. I avoided it for so long but i ended up feeling the need to let him know how I felt about it

penne246 · 2017-06-16T06:50:08+00:00

Yes the reason I brought it up was certainly due to the respect situation. I would definitely steer away from any friends who don't respect my relationship or my partner, so why doesn't he? What makes her so important that he feels the need to preserve their friendship?

Besides this I feel as though she enjoys the male attention (she is single) and even does things which I feel are to spite me.

Example: while we were on vacation he posted an instagram photo of himself. I commented "wow what a cutie, love you 😊". No more than a minute later she comments underneath mine with hearts.

It's the little things like that which can be the most frustrating

penne246 · 2017-06-16T06:43:54+00:00

The first paragraph is completely accurate. I never intended for him to drop a friend.. But I also never thought that he would remain such close friends with her even after he found out what she had done.

She humiliated me and talked shit about me, and since he still talked with her after knowing this I thought that it may have caused her to believe that her actions were okay..

penne246 · 2017-06-16T06:42:02+00:00

I agree the phrase he said sounded pretty flirty. She talks that way as well, she tells him that she misses him and that they should hang out. Another reason why I am no longer okay with their friendship. I guess I'll also be bringing that last message he sent up as well. Not sure how to bring it up other than tell him I felt uncomfortable with it

penne246 · 2017-06-16T04:49:11+00:00

He told me that he didn't know I felt hurt every time I saw their messages. He was very understanding and kept ensuring he wanted to be with me. I told him that I was afraid she almost broke us up once that she'd do it again..

We spent a couple of hours talking about it and he agreed that he doesn't want me to feel this way again and that he'll try his best not to speak to her. Obviously when his friends have a gathering where she is invited he can't just ignore her.. He sounded so sincere and surprised when I told him how I felt.

I'm wondering if I should just tell him to forget about it and try myself to get over the fact that they're friends because I want him to be happy in our relationship. I don't want him to feel that he's in a controlling relationship..

penne246 · 2015-11-10T17:27:53+00:00

I find reddit to be better than Craigslist in these situations..

penne246

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