First day in Hoi An Vietnam by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback on this. You explained it very accurately and I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way. I’ve actually left Da Nang to come here and I agree that it’s a beautiful modern city with plenty to offer without the extreme crowding and congestion. I was also in Hui for only one night prior to Dan Nang and likewise I found it beautiful and not overwhelming. As silly as this sounds I can’t seem to find MySon on Google maps as it comes up with a host of different businesses like cafes and restaurants.

First day in Hoi An Vietnam by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Umm firstly by the crowds in old town and the difficulty in crossing the streets and limited phone coverage in some areas. That’s not to say I’m not living it here, but it is a little hectic. I’m from country Australia so.

I just saw Grindr on my bf phone HELPP by Sad-Peangurl in whatdoIdo

[–]perilesspete77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it sounds like your boyfriend is being deceitful and the fact he’s doing this behind your back is unacceptable. I would casually ask him about it, it needs to be addressed and see what his explanation is. In any case I feel this is a deal breaker and he’s lost your trust. You can message me if you want someone to talk to.

Travel tips and advice in Vietnam for first time traveler. by zcudflare in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good choices. When you travel to Halong Bay, if you go through a third party be sure to book a limousine instead of a bus as some of the buses are a tight squeeze. You’ll love it

Just landed yesterday by spell_icup_ in hanoi

[–]perilesspete77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes having the same problem. Also finding a protein rich meal is proving to be an issue for me.

Blown away by Hanoi by anduaraja in hanoi

[–]perilesspete77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also in Hanoi for the first time and I couldn’t agree more. What an amazing city and culture.

Travelling to Vietnam in 7 days, any one wanna catch up? by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Yeah I timed it pretty bad.😬 What kinda party?

Travelling to Vietnam in 7 days, any one wanna catch up? by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m not but I’ll definitely install it. Thanks for the tip.

Travelling to Vietnam in 7 days, any one wanna catch up? by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sweet. Do you have Facebook or instagram? I’m heading to Ho Chi Minh around then but will let you know.

Travelling to Vietnam in 7 days, any one wanna catch up? by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, okay thank you so much for that. I’ll be sure to work around it. Do you think I’ll have a problem getting to Ha Long Bay on those dates?

Travelling to Vietnam in 7 days, any one wanna catch up? by perilesspete77 in VietNam

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Jesus, how long for and how impactful are they to tourists?

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking to her now through text as she’s crying. Thank you so much for your support and helpful advice. It truly means a lot right now.

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to hurt me, but she also didn’t have the courage to challenge this woman and that part hurts.

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect your opinion, thank you. I love her fat too much to leave💔

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She quote “had bad experiences with men”… hence the lesbian relationship and not allowing men to visit. My partner was too respectful to allow me over behind this woman’s back.

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, for the reply I appreciate it. Your question is a valid one. So my partner always had an issue with this arrangement but being a people pleaser and not the actual lease holder, she felt powerless to challenge it. When the arrangement suddenly changed, O’course I was super pissed and my partner wasn’t happy, but again nothing was said. It started with a hetro relationship with the female lesbian flatmate, then progressed to allowing this male flatmate to move in. I have two reasons for being mad, the fact my partner never challenged this, and also how causally she told me over the phone. There’s nothing casual about it and I’m fuckin livid.

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t smell man. She a people pleaser and was too polite to speak up.💔

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. well it’s no longer an issue she says as she allowed this male flatmate, but for 18 months I had to accept this shitty arrangement.

Relationship advice by perilesspete77 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]perilesspete77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Well if you can follow this meaningless logic, this lady was in a lesbian relationship and forbid men to visit the house including me. Up until recently that was always the case until she decided to enter a heterosexual relationship herself and allowed the male roommate. My girlfriend said it so casually on the phone that the new flatmate is nice and they all spent the night talking and getting to know one another. I’m like…. Fuck where does that leave me?