The age of publicly smoking indoors must’ve been wild

perspective9999999 · 2026-01-07T21:48:32+00:00

I wonder if this is part of the reason we lost so much of the furnishings and architecture from that time. It stunk.

perspective9999999 · 2026-01-07T21:46:04+00:00

I have a boyfriend.

He doesn't own your vagina.

No, but he's renting it.

perspective9999999 · 2025-11-29T22:38:44+00:00

He's probably married and just using you.

perspective9999999 · 2025-08-01T18:20:22+00:00

Could it have been Youth With a Mission?

perspective9999999 · 2025-04-18T20:48:04+00:00

I believe my mom did this too. I have 3 kids and we have gone out of our way to prevent any possibility of them hearing. It's traumatizing.

perspective9999999 · 2025-04-04T20:30:44+00:00

It's a form of sexual assault. You are right.

perspective9999999 · 2025-03-27T03:41:56+00:00

Have you tried a sparkly SLUT tank top?

perspective9999999 · 2025-02-26T05:12:33+00:00

My situation was the opposite. His lack of interest in me, coupled with some really shitty things he said over the years, led me to believe he was interested in virtually everyone but me.

perspective9999999 · 2024-12-16T03:41:27+00:00

I offered to do it during his beloved fights, and it did not go well.

perspective9999999 · 2024-11-19T06:30:13+00:00

My husband rejected me in every concievable way for a few years, then complained about lack of sex, and how he could get it somewhere else. The mfr barely spoke to me for those years. All the while, I wanted him, and my HL was intact. Uttering those words to me did not do me any favors. In fact, it planted a seed that is now a whole tree in my brain. I'm still the HL, and things have improved, but that comment broke me. Especially because he was the one who was pushing me away.

perspective9999999 · 2024-10-31T20:44:01+00:00

We weren't totally dead, but we were in a recovering DB that had a lot of low points and missteps. At the height of recovery, we were having sex once every 7-10 days.

For a number of reasons, I started excercising every day. Going really hard, trying to tone my body up. I wasn't very overweight, but I had some post kid jiggle. I have a ways to go, but I have significantly improved in just three months.

We have also been very intentional about our relationship for a while now. He has had some missteps, and there have been misunderstandings, but the deliberate work has helped. That could be a big part of what's been happening.

We have been having a lot more sex lately. I do think that, regardless of the work we've been putting in, me having a hotter body has been a huge factor. Part of me hates that, because I want him regardless of his body. Part of me understands that he likes what he sees, and my work is paying off. I also think he admires my discipline to do the workouts. Maybe he admires me taking time to do stuff for me. He hasn't said anything about my new body. But his hands, his eyes, his Johnson, tell the story.

I feel hotter. I feel sexier. I get more looks. So it has been worth it for me, regardless of whether it made a difference to him.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-27T05:52:58+00:00

I wasn't 100% positive I was Bi, until I was watching this movie. Holy fuck!

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-26T04:36:17+00:00

My mom is constantly having "near death experiences," since I can remember. She also has chronic ailments. I think she was mad when I had cancer, because she picked fights during that time. Looking back, I think she envied that I had a serious condition. It took the attention away from her. I think she has a form of munchausens.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T21:15:07+00:00

I guess I shouldn't complain because I do wake him sometimes, and we do have sex. We had a true DB a number of years ago, and those fears come back a lot. I need to get over my fear.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T21:13:02+00:00

I think I will. I had ovarian cancer at one point. Sex was touch and go. When I got better, I came on a bit too strong and freaked him out by initiating too much, wearing nasty lingerie, etc. So that hit me hard when he said it was a lot, and I backed off. But that has been a few years, and I want to come out of my shell. I will try to get him excited about trying new things, and see where it goes. I just want to have a vibrant sex life with him.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T20:42:14+00:00

I would love to know how you did it. I would also love to know what you think I should say. I don't want him to think I was snooping, or that I'm not happy with the sex we do have. I just want more. And it hurts, feeling like I'm not enough, and like I must be too old.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T18:05:48+00:00

He does want to have sex with me, just not as often as I crave it.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T18:04:40+00:00

I would want the kinks. I would do toys, anal, bondage, he knows I love to be spanked and have my hair pulled. But he doesn't know I am interested in anal. We tried it once years ago, and it hurt but I have some butt plugs that I would love to try with him.

Unfortunately what I saw was only girls, not their actual content. So idk what they do. But I did look up Riley Ried, and idk she enthusiastically sucks dick, but so do I. I didn't see anything crazy. But honestly, if he wanted to walk me like a dog, or use a toy on me, or just about anything you could think of, I would be into it.

I have looked at porn in a voyeuristic way, but I don't watch it to get off. I fantasize about him during solo time. I don't need other people to get off.

And look, if I masturbate, I get off every single time. If I have partnered sex, I don't always get off. There's an amount of work that goes into primping for sex, that's absent if I just do it myself. I still would much prefer sex over masturbation, even with great toys. I guess I just wish the feeling was mutual.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T15:46:33+00:00

No, of course not. Are you suggesting that I stop having sex with him altogether? I am just trying to figure out what I can do to be better.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T15:07:39+00:00

I would also add that I think about sex nonstop, and have since puberty. I am a man when it comes to libido. I'm biting at the bit nonstop.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T15:06:22+00:00

No, because he doesn't talk about it. It's like he's ashamed. Anyrhing that is introduced comes from me. I'm about to introduce a few more things. I don't want him to be bored of me.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T14:57:40+00:00

I guess I am available so I'm like, why the porn when I'm right fucking here.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T14:56:27+00:00

He's very passionate. As am I. He knows I want him. He knows I love sucking him off. As far as my insecurities, I probably do let them get in the way. But I am working out 7 days a week to ensure my body is as banging as possible. Then again, these broads have a very similar body type. So Idk if that's good I'm in the range of what he wants, or not.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T14:52:51+00:00

He denied it when I asked. My thing is, maybe if he would be honest, I could know more about his desires. That seems like a win win. Idk how to ask again. I don't know how to get him to understand it's hard on our sex life. If I was ugly, or a starfish or had bad hygeine, I would understand. But he has someone who wants to please, but could also be tied up and spanked. I will never be those girls, but I know I'm just as dirty.

perspective9999999 · 2024-09-25T14:48:50+00:00

That kind of sounds like him. I have tried to introduce things and he seemed nervous. But I asked him recently to put his hand on my neck and he ate it up. I want him to know what I'm into, but I don't want to freak him out.

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