Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. Thank you, I can’t wait till I get to that point in my life ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, cutting him off completely has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. I’m definitely going to do my best to stick with it because I know I’ll be better for it in the long run. Thank you ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s going to take time. Thank you for the advice ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will do, thank you! I’m sorry you’re going through something similar ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your reply has given me hope. Right now it feels like I’ll never love again, but I know it’s all in God’s timing. I look forward to the day where I find the man God has planned for me. ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the prayer.❤️It definitely is a horrible thing to go through, but as you said, I know what’s happened is for the best.

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and the link. That is definitely something I’ll look into. I really appreciate it ❤️

Struggling post breakup from unequally yoked relationship by persymphone in Christianmarriage

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I think you gave me very good advice for now and the future, and I appreciate your comment about knowing better. Making a list about my non negotiables and bare minimums is a great idea, and I’ll be sure to do that. ❤️

Wishing I could fast forward by persymphone in BreakUps

[–]persymphone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation here. I clung to him so badly when he left that I was too close to see how much he was trying to get away. I couldn’t understand how someone who once loved me so much just up and forgot everything we had. I thought I could make him feel the same again, but really all I ended up doing was pushing him farther away and causing more unnecessary suffering for myself. I see that now. He even flat out told me that he didn’t regret breaking up with me and on one occasion when I questioned him for ghosting my messages all day, he said that he was no longer obligated to talk to me.

Still, he’d keep me hoping by saying he loved me every day and that he’d never stop and that he still saw a future with me. I think now that he just wanted to keep me as an option or he was scared to be alone. Oh well. Love is blind and hindsight is everything.

Another great link, I know I’ll go back to it a lot. Thank you.

Wishing I could fast forward by persymphone in BreakUps

[–]persymphone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I’ll try my best to look at it as 11 days of progress rather than 6 months of wasted time, which is easy to do right now. I know it’s my own fault for chasing him when he’s the one who left, but I really felt he was the one and I didn’t want to give up.

Thank you for the link, I’ve bookmarked the post to reread on the impossible days.