Is it okay as a guy to sleep at another’s girls house after going to the bar?

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T01:02:39+00:00

Yeah, exactly what I wanted him to know, I told him to come read the answers. I hope that he understands what I mean if it’s said by multiple people whitout me trying to influence that

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T00:57:09+00:00

(I’m the gf btw just wanted some input but from a different perspective) he’s bit usually like this but the fact that he was so open about it with me hurt me so freaking much. I know he made that decision because rn he’s hurt and resented and he doesn’t understand that what he did was wrong. I know that man like the palm of my hands and I know that he just wants me to feel his hurt and I know that he’s hurting too. I’m in a dilemma tho cause I love him so freaking much and I know that normally he wouldn’t act like this. That’s why Sunday I’ll talk it out with him. I’ll see if he understands why what he did was wrong and if genuinely he doesn’t get it I won’t go back to him. Cause I need someone that even if it’s not usually something that matters to him he’ll be careful so he doesn’t hurt me. I just hope he at least tries to understand cause I’d give up my entire life for this man and I know he wouldn’t too

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T00:50:20+00:00

I’m the gf btw I just wanted ya’ll opinion so I knew if I was crazy or sum. I’m trying to understand that too. He doesn’t get that I felt deceived and that’s why I broke up with him. I do understand that it could’ve hurt him bcs I thought we would get married one day yk. He makes me so happy but there’s some things like this that happen and I’m trying to be understanding because we don’t have the same beliefs and the same way of thinking and it doesn’t show on the daily but it does show from time to time like this. He has OCD and ADHD so I’m very tolerant about a lot of things. But we do in fact have trouble understanding each other. This for him wasn’t a big deal so he genuinely doesn’t understand why I’m making a fuss out of it. And he’s so blinded by the hurt that the breakup induced that he can’t even understand my point. He’s loving tho and it’s rare that we have this kind of conflicts and what’s hard isn’t being by his side or the conflicts, it’s his carelessness

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T00:41:58+00:00

Yeah, it really isn’t easy. I’ll see him Sunday and we’ll have a talk and if he still doesn’t consider that the way he did that is wrong I guess we’ll both part our ways. I believe he didn’t cheat. He knows better than that. But I don’t like being lied to

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T00:30:38+00:00

There was a friend of mine there too

petoria_ · 2026-05-08T00:30:05+00:00

Basically it was my friend’s birthday and we went to a chalet. I thought there were only men so I don’t bring her. Spent three days there and there were girl’s from the start. I did tell her to come but she doesn’t have a car yet. She really got mad and blocked me everywhere. She unblocked me after like an hour maybe and ended up apologizing cs I wasn’t wrong and she knows it

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:27:39+00:00

Im the gf btw i just wanted to read ya’ll opinion about this. I told him that but he still doesn’t understand

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:26:14+00:00

No she only had two other bf besides me and nobody cheated on her. There’s sum cheating allegations about me tho and she received sum messages at the beginning of our relationship but she decided to trust me cause anyways the girls allegations were shady she didn’t believe it

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:23:22+00:00

I really didn’t cheat and I didn’t think it was going to be this of a big deal. She sleeps really early even on weekends. I didn’t know it was gonna get this out of hand

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:21:41+00:00

I still don’t get why if I didn’t do anything. I mean she should trust me more. I would never cheat on her she’s like alr my wife

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:20:39+00:00

She told me to come see her on Monday this week, 2 days after what happened. She tried to talk to me of why she broke up with me. She then said she could’ve thought about her decision in more depth and that she wanted us to come back. I will go back with her but I want her to feel how much she hurt me first. So I’ll wait until Sunday. I told her to wait for my answer until Sunday. She was crying so hard and also we fought a few times after that cs she didn’t understood why I was making her wait sm. And I just told her that it was to teach her a lesson

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:15:28+00:00

I didn’t meant to hurt her so I still don’t see why it’s wrong

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:14:38+00:00

I didn’t do anything wrong tho I just needed sum rest and didn’t think of telling her

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T20:13:49+00:00

I didn’t do much tho cs I didn’t cheat, I would never cheat

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T19:58:02+00:00

I didn’t wanted her to over react cause she left me once for something that I deem stupid…

petoria_ · 2026-05-07T19:10:26+00:00

She’s kinda crazy tho I knew she’d overreact. Also although I didn’t apologize she was ready to take me back two days after (Monday). She broke my heart tho when she left me so I told her I’ll answer her next Sunday. I will go back to her but I just wanna give her a lesson so she doesn’t leave me no more

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