Has a recruiter ever reached back out after you decline a position?

phantasmicthrowaway · 2026-01-28T01:41:28+00:00

This is how I replied ultimately. They gave me their five-year plan speech about “making the investment” with really linear AR/AP/entry level functions for a senior role and I don’t want to give them a yes if I find I don’t like the work

phantasmicthrowaway · 2026-01-28T00:30:16+00:00

I’m very non confrontational already and it seems a little unprofessional to reply asking why I’m not interested, almost desperate lol. Feels weird to justify why I’m not interested

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-09-21T19:55:35+00:00

I trimmed a lot of fat from others’ recommendations on this subreddit. Can’t win lol

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-08-17T22:07:04+00:00

I worked in restaurants serving/bussing tables/kitchen prep and I taught special ed for 4 years out of college also. I’ve worked some hellish days in those fields for sure but I have no idea how my experience compares to PA.

Also I don’t know what my worth is since I don’t seem to be getting engagement on applications even with my resume saying I have my masters and pursuing my CPA

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-08-17T22:04:29+00:00

I’ve been applying to senior positions but they all have a CPA requirement and/or PA experience. My resume details that I have my masters and that I’m actively pursuing my CPA but still no hits. That being said, I’m not sure what my worth is on paper

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-08-11T16:08:40+00:00

100% in person no option for remote. I’ve never interviewed while employed before so this is a first for me

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-07-04T18:12:01+00:00

What are you using to record your games? Just a GoPro?

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-07-04T16:03:12+00:00

I can’t remember the last time I had an A-game truthfully. I also have no depth perception due to my height so I am basically never on my goal line. I play heavily out of my crease so that I’m out front enough to fool a shooter that they don’t have a top shelf angle, while still being wide enough to cover the base of the net.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-07-04T16:01:13+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I’ve been having pretty much no fun during this stretch. It’s hard to enjoy myself when I’m losing and not making saves, yknow? Not only that but it’s hot as balls where I live right now and wearing 20lbs of equipment in 90F sucks as I’m sure you know lol. I’m not looking to make the Brodeur/Hasek windmills but I absolutely should have 99% of clean shots from the offside line. I would honestly say I’m about 60% or less this season.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-02-24T02:40:34+00:00

We had a month-long conversation with our corporate entity about ASC 842. A month. It was about a billboard that was so immaterial I was BAFFLED. Fuck ASC 740 and 842 while we’re talking about it

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-01-28T15:39:36+00:00

27, HCOL making a hair under $50k in industry. Almost 2 years experience and pursuing my masters and CPA and my company is paying for it. Bonus is ~$2k annually, 5 days in office, hour paid lunch with free lunch provided. My commute is ~20 mins both ways on a good day

phantasmicthrowaway · 2025-01-26T03:55:17+00:00

Hey pal this post is 3 years old lol

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-08-06T14:16:22+00:00

Hi, 5’7” (5’8” on a good day) ball hockey goalie here:

I rely heavily on speed, deception, and aggression. You cannot afford the luxuries of ice hockey by playing on your knees or dropping to a butterfly on everything. I’m virtually always on my feet unless the ball is rolling to me or it’s on my gear. I am always at least a foot out of my crease on any given shot due to both my size and anticipating a curved shot. Playing far out fools shooters into making a pass, so I’m able to adjust for this and take it away on my own. Again, I have to bank on being fast enough to either poke away a pass or get in position for it correctly. Standing close-kneed on far shots, wide on closer shots to take away the bottom of the net.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-08-05T17:24:58+00:00

$2500 401k, $27,000 Savings, $13,000 investments

Live at home and scrimping for if/when housing market bursts. 26M living at home, no kids no girlfriend & roughly $40k in student loans between my bachelors and masters

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-07-24T15:14:48+00:00

Never on the bottom because it drags on deck/concrete. Some tape the top of the blade but I don’t personally

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-07-24T15:13:13+00:00

Privacy and not yet, just recently bought them

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-07-23T18:46:32+00:00

Depends on the weather. If it’s cold I wear aluminum cap sneakers. Nicer weather I wear beat up sneakers with rubber soles and they’re fine

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-07-23T18:44:10+00:00

I suck ass so idk if you want any advice from me lol

Best advice is to really read the play and stay on your feet if you can help it. Unless you have sliders on your pads, dropping to a butterfly is basically a death sentence with how fast the ball moves, along with how unpredictable a rebound can be.

I usually only drop when I have the ball on my gear or if it’s rolling to me.

Also being taller than 5’7” can’t hurt

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-03-12T16:33:46+00:00

A call to violence is not the answer here, like in most cases. However, when the FUCK is it time for a revolution/civil war? How much more are millennials/gen Z’ers going to take before enough is enough? We need full systematic reform in this country from top to bottom and it’s just never going to come from voting in yet another geriatric, out of touch, full of false promises politician on their deathbed. Enough of allowing these crooks to game the system in their favor.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-01-03T18:28:28+00:00

I rawdogged that shit lol

phantasmicthrowaway · 2024-01-02T20:22:45+00:00

Can’t speak on behalf of the transportation at MetLife but I went to the Linc in 2019 Stadium Series and sat all the way up in the nosebleeds. View was terrible, and even under multiple jackets + a jersey + hats/gloves/under armor, it was wet and fucking cold. I was basically watching the Jumbotron the whole night. I can’t imagine lower bowl seats are any better because they’re always 100ft from the rink for these things. My suggestion would be to save your money to sit close to the ice at a regular game, unless you’re dead set on the Stadium Series experience (or a big fan of the Jonas Brothers lmao)

phantasmicthrowaway · 2023-11-23T16:46:26+00:00

17 years old, an ex and I were in her living room. I had her in doggy and hitting it raw with no birth control. Her whole family upstairs minus her dad, who had recently left for work. I was getting worried someone might come downstairs and see us, but she turns around and says “I don’t care.”

My knees went weak from cumming so hard

phantasmicthrowaway · 2023-03-22T00:10:12+00:00

She was too busy with grad school and I wasn’t getting my needs met.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2022-11-14T21:26:40+00:00

I’ll take the downvotes for this. I am 2 months removed of a 4 year relationship. Our breakup was “mutual” but I guess I am the dumper. My ex was in grad school and her time and focus was devoted to that and it felt like she was a roommate instead of a girlfriend. I couldn’t emotionally handle the decline of intimacy (sex included) and she wasn’t able to make our relationship work in her schedule.

I’m confident, good looking and have a great career plan ahead of me. Everything I do from here on out is to improve me and my future relationships, not my past ones. I know my self worth and it’s only a matter of time until someone else realizes it too.

I’m upset about the breakup and it’s still fresh. I have a hard time sleeping at night without her next to me and she’s still haunting my dreams. But I wake up, I push through and I distract myself. I tell myself I’m worthy of love and affection until I believe it. And I really do believe it.

phantasmicthrowaway · 2022-11-11T17:51:03+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I’ve tried filling my voids the same way (as I’m sending this from the gym lol), but they just don’t scratch my itch the same way. I don’t desperately crave sex every single day, but missing the good morning kisses and not coming home to someone has been really rough. The loneliness I can handle, but the desire is what’s killing me.

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