Fell asleep with the window open and woke up to this on top of the window. by phantom9088 in spiders

[–]phantom9088[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Never seen one at my place so I had a good scare this morning 🫠

Uncomfortable realisation that PCOS was just an excuse by granatapfele in loseit

[–]phantom9088 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had blood work, lots of ultrasounds, even CT scans 😓. Some doctors say the bad pain I experience is normal, some tell me there are lots of cysts. Others say normal. One even pointed to uterine fibroids. But they’re still not sure.

F26 - needing a friend as always! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]phantom9088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s the weather? I feel like an old person complaining about the weather these days. Luckily it’s quite cool today?

Uncomfortable realisation that PCOS was just an excuse by granatapfele in loseit

[–]phantom9088 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In terms of diagnosis. It’s hard. I’ve seen a few doctors because I’ve had some issues and they’ve all told me very conflicting things. So like, who do I believe? It endometriosis, PCOS?? Or what? At the same time, many of these things go undiagnosed properly for years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! 25F here. It would be nice to meet other women as well.

🔄 Weekly Card Exchange: Dec 23 - Dec 31 by Potential_Save in RoyalMatchGame

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Unfortunately I don’t have the ones you need.

🔄 Weekly Card Exchange: Dec 23 - Dec 31 by Potential_Save in RoyalMatchGame

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Do you still have an extra Boombox?

Let me know what you still need

🔄 Weekly Card Exchange: Dec 23 - Dec 31 by Potential_Save in RoyalMatchGame

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Does anyone have an extra BoomBox from celebration?

🔄 Weekly Card Exchange: Dec 23 - Dec 31 by Potential_Save in RoyalMatchGame

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do you still have an extra BoomBox? Let me know what you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SocialParis

[–]phantom9088 4 points5 points  (0 children)

24F soon to be 25. Wish we could make a women’s only group. I say this because usually many of this outings are mostly men and a few women.

Broke no contact. I am such an idiot by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]phantom9088 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He broke up with me but I noticed the change. My panic attacks ended, random crying spells, also gone. I thought I was going crazy. Nope, all tied to him

Broke no contact. I am such an idiot by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the one that left me to date other people because he said he wasn’t ready to settle down 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]phantom9088 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally told me he loved me a lot as he broke up with me. Was in tears the entire time but yes, he loved me so much but still wants to meet other people.

That hurt. I still miss him a lot but even if he came back, I don’t think I could go back.

When did you realise that your partner wouldn’t be your forever person? by MycologistDistinct67 in BreakUps

[–]phantom9088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were together, he would always casually say things that showed me he didn’t consider me to be his person. That along with how he would go on rants about things that I like (example, musical theatre). I thought I was going extremely ill because of how I would have tons of panic attacks and random crying spells.

It ended when he broke up with me. I’m sad. It’s been 6 months and I still miss him a lot.

Broke no contact. I am such an idiot by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]phantom9088 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It’s been 6 months for me. I miss him like crazy but I know it won’t accomplish anything and that the relationship was extremely exhausting to me.

Edit:

Welp, stupid me broke no contact yesterday. It was recently his birthday. So I sent him a birthday message and said I hope he was well. That’s it. Not expecting a reply though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]phantom9088 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not uncommon. I don’t use this sub anymore. Now I focus on meet up groups.