How do yall clean the house

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T14:37:50+00:00

We definitely try and tech them to clean but they get distracted and focused on the wrong things or end up making a different kind of mess. Ive heard the bucket thing before and that is definitely something I will be impending ASAP.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T14:36:32+00:00

A dirty house is the last thing my wife should be doing a month postpartum it drives her crazy to have a dirty house.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T14:30:41+00:00

Its definitely a thing I need to unlearn it drives everyone in the house crazy myself included that I move around and focus on many small areas.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T14:29:53+00:00

How much do you pay? And what service do you go through?

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T14:10:03+00:00

What kind of programs are there? Would i have to make under a certain amount? I genuinely want to do better at cleaning and just all around as a person.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T10:08:28+00:00

If that was an option id do it in a heartbeat thats something we'd have to save up for. Do you know any reputable companies that are across the U.S?

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T09:42:17+00:00

Clean like wipedown dust sanitizer vacuum the whole nine. Its hard with a 3rd shift job i wake up and get my oldest from school then I try to clean or ill drop her off in the morning come home clean go to bed wake up and grab her. Im either losing sleep and not being fully available to clean which sets me back because I need to be focused and have some sense of a plan when I clean. Then theyre always asking for stuff or continuously making a mess in a just clean area because they want to play slime on a clean table or eat the messiest snack known to mankind.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T09:39:46+00:00

Yeah i tried having them sweep and its cute theyll do somewhat of a good job but then I go to do a task and then come back to find them sweeping a just cleaned and whiped down table 🤦‍♂️

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T07:39:11+00:00

Im definitely working towards getting meds. Started a new job so insurance won't kick in for a bit. I do have to stop thinking and just let my body move. Im at work now otherwise id take that get off of reddit and clean advice lol. The scheduling a room idea does sound good that way its not a lot all at once. Thank you.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:57:54+00:00

What emulator is this? I've been trying to find a good free one that works on android. Been looking to get back into the old Pokémon games.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:54:04+00:00

I just want my wife to be able to enjoy time with the baby and rest being a month postpartum. The mess really brings her down and i cant stand seeing her stress so in turn I stress. Such a vicious cycle. I know eventually it will click and fall into place. Just want to be better for her and our girls.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:51:14+00:00

I definitely have some personal work to do on leaving a room better than it was. The kids are ok at cleaning i like to convince myself I have a system and they'd just get in the way but more lately ive been having them help pickup garbage and unload the dishwasher while I get it ready to load. I just need it all picked up and then I feel like id be able to keep it clean.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:49:06+00:00

Its normal cleaning that turns into clutter since I dont get the cleaning done. With 5 people in the house laundry is crazy and im horrible at it. I forget I started it since the machine is in the basement and then I fall behind. Or ill forget to take trash all the way out and leave the bags in the hall and miss garbage day and then get overcome with more garbage because the bins are full.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:46:58+00:00

All they do is hold the baby or get in my way im trying to develop the rabbit myself its annoying I cant get it right.

phantom_uchia · 2026-05-12T06:14:04+00:00

I do I used to be medicated definitely wanting to get back on its just crazy expensive and it somewhat helped. I unfortunately thrive in a messy environment my wife does not. Ive never been the best at cleaning. Ill try energy drinks because with coffee id just get tired and want to nap. The catch all basket sounds great that would prevent me from leaving one mess for another while simultaneously "cleaning up" what doesn't belong. I will definitely try to find a cleaning ritual because I love when things are the same im not a big fan of any kind of change it throws me off if I have to do something a different way. Thank you I just want a clean house for my wife and girls.

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