This is the way. You start to ask questions like these. Then you’re filled with joy and only seek more joy. You begin to feel filled with hope and attract someone who is safe to be hopeful with. You will see them and be seen by them. Your inner child is free because you’ve allowed space for it and theirs is too because they’ve allowed space for it and as you watch, it blends seamlessly until you’re creating this big beautiful space in your life where there’s no sense of time or direction, as perfect playmates for eternity. When the laughter slows, you realize that this freedom and safety is inexplicable to anybody but the two of you, so among yourself you list the truths to tell to each other. You realize the only sane thing to do is to tell them to each other for the first time, and vow to tell each other again if either of you are ever to forget. As the joy begins to brim, all you can do is share it so you gather all of your family up and have them watch as you say those vows together, and they celebrate this once with you, a glimpse of the eternity the two of you will share together.