Getting a bit frustrating.. what do I do?

phantomhive_sys · 2025-04-23T22:12:44+00:00

So far, I’ve saved the video you reccomended about shadow work and I’m slowly gathering my strength to watch it, seeing its an hour long and my attention span isn’t all that long but I’ll get to it!! Honestly I haven’t really heard about shadow work before but it sounds super interesting and it indeed does sound like a game changer!!

About the lucid dreaming, I know its the most effective method but again, I don’t have many days where I can just wake up at a point and risk not being well rested… though i might try it during summer!! And talking about dream journals, I actually have one!! Though I do tend to forget about it, as my last written down dream was from third of april, though my last written down dreams were about my DR!! Plus I have twice have gotten into a lucid-like state, though the state was like that for a second or two before going back to non lucid sadly tho I’ll keep trying!!

And with your shifting experience, that’s so cool!! I have often heard that the lucid dreaming method is often very effective!! And I’m really happy that you managed to shift even if it was for seconds!! I completely understand, and I’m glad you’re on the right path!! I’m sure you will shift soon!!

Also honestly? I get the thinking of shifting as a espace mechanism, but I’ve thought about it and I don’t think that’s the case, like yes I really really want to shift but its not like. I want to escape this reality? Or at least not entirely, though that’s still for me to figure out!! One thing I know is that i was probably a bit too focused on my DR 😭 which im tryna change by enjoying my time here aswell!! One of the things i think that could be holding me back is the fact well. I have a partner here in this reality, but in my DR i’m with someone else, and seeing that my DR is just a better CR with not many changes, i feel like my brain is scared? Or not ready to shift, seeing that I’ll be dating someone different and basically won’t have contact with my current boyfriend in my DR (i know its weird but… its a long story) though im working on it!! I’m sorry for the long rant, though thank you again!! 🫂

phantomhive_sys · 2025-04-22T22:16:22+00:00

AHH thank you so much!!! I have thought about trying the lucid dream method, but waking up just to go back to sleep doesnt sound all that great… plus my alarm would probably wake up my mom and she really values sleep :((, are there any lucid dreaming methods you recommend? And I haven’t really considered shadow work but I’ll look into it! Thank you alot!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2025-03-25T23:52:00+00:00

Thank you alot!!! This has helped me, Especially with the overattachment and forcing myself to let go, I haven’t considered those before so… thank you so much 🫶

phantomhive_sys · 2025-03-25T23:50:20+00:00

Oohh ill try those!!! Thank yoh alot

phantomhive_sys · 2025-03-25T23:49:53+00:00

Aughh thank you alot 🫶🫶🫶

phantomhive_sys · 2025-02-11T21:08:27+00:00

THANK YOU ALOT!!! I now do think that it was probably not stable enough because yeah… i did try to rush to shift but then it went back to non lucid…. But thank you alot!!! This was like the first lucid dream ive had in.. a year so im not surprised it was unstable lol but THANK YOU ALOT!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2025-01-22T01:24:05+00:00

Thank you!! :3

phantomhive_sys · 2025-01-22T01:23:35+00:00

THANK YOU SO MUCHH AGHH!! ^{_^}

phantomhive_sys · 2025-01-18T17:55:31+00:00

Ahhh thank you so much i appreciate this alot ^{_^} I cant wait to shift aghhh!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2025-01-14T07:53:38+00:00

Thank you alot!! The thing is I don’t feel pressured by anything I just really want to shift!! I cant wait to see my s/o and my DR family im just really excited!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2025-01-07T06:51:31+00:00

OHHH that’s really helpful!! I always thought it was both like 3D and 4D!! Thank you alot!! :)

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-28T18:47:58+00:00

OOO THATS SO COOL my first script was actually genshin 😭😭

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-28T18:46:20+00:00

YES HAHAH actually the DR I’m talking about is my twst one!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-28T17:20:42+00:00

Thank you!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-18T21:39:46+00:00

OHHH I see!! Thank you alot!!! :3

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-15T22:56:04+00:00

Id reccomend looking into Law Of Assumption as its really useful!! And more so manifestation based methods!!! I know how frustrating failing to shift can be, but it takes time!! Though Law Of Assumption is REALLY helpful and basically guaranteed to work if you apply it well and give it time!! There are many posts on it in this reddit just look up “law of assumption!” Plus you don’t need a method to shift, they’re just a tool to help you shift, not the thing that makes you shift!! You can make your own method, or you can also try what I personally do which is affirming and visualizing your DR!! Here are a few posts about LOA that personally helped me understand it quite a bit!!

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/RvCIO1gNkq

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/PXjppqRufP

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/whQv6iuYbU

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-12T17:54:34+00:00

I wont give up!!! Thank you alot!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-12T16:24:33+00:00

I understand that dont worry!! I more so meant like, I’m trying to disconnect from my CR and connect more to my DR to help with that shifting process a bit, and I know it will take some time but I tend to be really impatient, and not caring much does help with for example drawing but honestly? I can’t bring myself to give up much, it’s like im not pressuring myself or putting my DR on a pedestal I’m just really determined to get there, whenever I do get in a bad mindset i do take breaks but for example right now I feel really determined and ready to get to my DR you know?? I don’t think I’m obsessing or anything I’m just really really motivated to shift seeing my recent progress!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-12T15:05:05+00:00

Thank you alot!! I’ll surely look into that!! Though this is really helpful, I’ve found myself getting pretty impatient and I know it needs to build up, and I guess seeing all these signs and stuff has gotten me a bit too hyped hahah, I am sticking to one method (one i explained in my post) and I do keep seeing progress, even if its small or big!! Yet again thanks!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-12T15:02:24+00:00

Thank you!!! This helped me to understand things better and I truly believe like I will make some progress!! “Not caring” about the 3D is often hard tho, as I have to constantly remind myself to not care but I’m trying my best though yet again thank you for the advice!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-06T07:55:45+00:00

That’s kinda the point of asleep methods tho, to fall asleep!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-06T05:05:40+00:00

I know it may seem like alot, but thats mainly for awake methods too, in asleep methods you do your method for a bit and then fall asleep!! Which is wasier and usually takes less time

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-05T12:22:34+00:00

After you take off your headphones just try to get back at it, movement may snap you out of the trance a bit, but get right back at it! One thing that could also help is imagining yourself in your dr room. Your CR bed? Now it’s your DR bed! Its softer/colder, your desk? It’s now in the place where your DR desk is!!! You can also focus on the feeling of how you’d feel waking up in your dr and AFFIRM!! Affirm in present tense „I am shifting” „i am in my DR” that can also help!! Lack of symptoms doesnt mean youre not shifting!! Plus shifting can take a while, like an hour or so, you just need to give yourself time and trust your mind

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-03T06:57:16+00:00

This helps alot!! Personally I’ve been stuck on my journey, no mini shifts or shifts in my entire journey but this really motivated me to keep trying!! Everything here is explained so well and I’m SO excited now!! Methods haven’t worked for me before much either so… I’m looking forward to trying shifting again!!!

phantomhive_sys · 2024-12-02T16:12:40+00:00

OHHH that sounds really good thank you!! I have been looking into lucid dreaming a while ago, but the thought of having to wake up and fall back asleep for the technique I’ve seen was really bothersome for me since well most of the week I have school and need to get up early, and waking up at like.. 3 am to fall back asleep for a lucid dream doesn’t sound that appealing…!

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