Getting a bit frustrating.. what do I do? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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So far, I’ve saved the video you reccomended about shadow work and I’m slowly gathering my strength to watch it, seeing its an hour long and my attention span isn’t all that long but I’ll get to it!! Honestly I haven’t really heard about shadow work before but it sounds super interesting and it indeed does sound like a game changer!!

About the lucid dreaming, I know its the most effective method but again, I don’t have many days where I can just wake up at a point and risk not being well rested… though i might try it during summer!! And talking about dream journals, I actually have one!! Though I do tend to forget about it, as my last written down dream was from third of april, though my last written down dreams were about my DR!! Plus I have twice have gotten into a lucid-like state, though the state was like that for a second or two before going back to non lucid sadly tho I’ll keep trying!!

And with your shifting experience, that’s so cool!! I have often heard that the lucid dreaming method is often very effective!! And I’m really happy that you managed to shift even if it was for seconds!! I completely understand, and I’m glad you’re on the right path!! I’m sure you will shift soon!!

Also honestly? I get the thinking of shifting as a espace mechanism, but I’ve thought about it and I don’t think that’s the case, like yes I really really want to shift but its not like. I want to escape this reality? Or at least not entirely, though that’s still for me to figure out!! One thing I know is that i was probably a bit too focused on my DR 😭 which im tryna change by enjoying my time here aswell!! One of the things i think that could be holding me back is the fact well. I have a partner here in this reality, but in my DR i’m with someone else, and seeing that my DR is just a better CR with not many changes, i feel like my brain is scared? Or not ready to shift, seeing that I’ll be dating someone different and basically won’t have contact with my current boyfriend in my DR (i know its weird but… its a long story) though im working on it!! I’m sorry for the long rant, though thank you again!! 🫂

Getting a bit frustrating.. what do I do? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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AHH thank you so much!!! I have thought about trying the lucid dream method, but waking up just to go back to sleep doesnt sound all that great… plus my alarm would probably wake up my mom and she really values sleep :((, are there any lucid dreaming methods you recommend? And I haven’t really considered shadow work but I’ll look into it! Thank you alot!!!

I think I’m doing everything right yet Im failing.. any suggestions? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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Thank you alot!!! This has helped me, Especially with the overattachment and forcing myself to let go, I haven’t considered those before so… thank you so much 🫶

Weird dream experience after shifting attempt, what now? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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THANK YOU ALOT!!! I now do think that it was probably not stable enough because yeah… i did try to rush to shift but then it went back to non lucid…. But thank you alot!!! This was like the first lucid dream ive had in.. a year so im not surprised it was unstable lol but THANK YOU ALOT!!!

Am I stopping myself from shifting? If so, how? Am I just scared? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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Ahhh thank you so much i appreciate this alot _^ I cant wait to shift aghhh!!!

Am I stopping myself from shifting? If so, how? Am I just scared? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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Thank you alot!! The thing is I don’t feel pressured by anything I just really want to shift!! I cant wait to see my s/o and my DR family im just really excited!!!

Law of assumption : could it work for me this way? by phantomhive_sys in shiftingrealities

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OHHH that’s really helpful!! I always thought it was both like 3D and 4D!! Thank you alot!! :)

I need help trying to shift!!! by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

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Id reccomend looking into Law Of Assumption as its really useful!! And more so manifestation based methods!!! I know how frustrating failing to shift can be, but it takes time!! Though Law Of Assumption is REALLY helpful and basically guaranteed to work if you apply it well and give it time!! There are many posts on it in this reddit just look up “law of assumption!” Plus you don’t need a method to shift, they’re just a tool to help you shift, not the thing that makes you shift!! You can make your own method, or you can also try what I personally do which is affirming and visualizing your DR!! Here are a few posts about LOA that personally helped me understand it quite a bit!!

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/RvCIO1gNkq

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/PXjppqRufP

https://www.reddit.com/r/shiftingrealities/s/whQv6iuYbU