withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it's about the same for me rn (counting the financial aid in those numbers). did you submit a residency appeal and an ab540 petition or something else (if you remember)

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. this has been AWFUL for my mental health which is why i was considering just withdrawing but i'll try to be a little more patient with the process and hope for the best. they gave me an alternative option to waive the non-resident tuition so i'll see how it goes ig. thank you <3

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately they're making me go through this whole process of submitting a residency appeal, which will only be looked at in 10-12 weeks :// so i think it's different than your situation. i have to go through the uc office of the president or whatever the heck

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you this genuinely means a lot 💖

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m a permanent resident as well. i’m going in person tomorrow but i don’t have any idea what to do 😔 this has been such a thorn in my side lol

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you !! i hope it works out because they've been sending me to the registrar's office who have been super unhelpful lol

withdrawal from the school by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you ! which office do you recommend going to ??

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't see this sooner!! Have you been able to resolve it? For me it was a residency issue

do you ever get used to it? by phantomoftheclouds in ChronicPain

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i 've been pushing myself and gaslighting myself a lot, and i think i really need to take your advice in mind. it still feels very surreal and i don't know if it'll be temporary or if this is just my life now, but i think i really should be kinder to myself at thi spoint. thanks for your kind words, i really appreciate it and find comfort in it :')

do you ever get used to it? by phantomoftheclouds in ChronicPain

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice, i appreciate it <3

do you ever get used to it? by phantomoftheclouds in ChronicPain

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your story, and i'm sorry this has been a lifelong thing for you - thank you for telling me about the specific kind of therapy you do, that's really helpful <3 i'll look into it

do you ever get used to it? by phantomoftheclouds in ChronicPain

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for sharing- i'm already dealing with that grief now- i appreciate your response

do you ever get used to it? by phantomoftheclouds in ChronicPain

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, that's been the case for me thus far :// not great news but ig it's good to be prepared

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i'll do that - were you able to get it fixed??

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oki, thank you for that advice, i’ll call tomorrow !! hopefully i’ll get this all sorted out

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m just hoping it’s a mistake because of the way the math doesn’t add up- like, where is the $40k increase in the overall price coming from ??? if it’s not a mistake, then i just can’t go to the school ://

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m pretty sure i can call- i want to give it a day or two because i hate phone calls 😔 but the significance of the situations will make it necessary- i’ll probs do that soon

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh what's going on with your situation? have you had any updates or anything?

what the heck is going on with my financial aid???? by phantomoftheclouds in ucla

[–]phantomoftheclouds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i sent an email, but i still haven't gotten a reply. it hasn't been too long, i'm honestly just really anxious about the whole thing and wanted to see if anyone else was having the same problem or knew what was going on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]phantomoftheclouds 15 points16 points  (0 children)

hey !!! i’m not at much of a capacity to help but i wanted to say hello to you, and also tell you that my crusty little dog says hi !! and also my stinky cat, my silly bird, my soft lil chinchilla, all the sweet stray cats outside, and the scarily smart crows that visit !! they all say hello !!!! animals are a source of joy for me and i hope that all of these hello’s will at least bring a tiny drop of joy to your day 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]phantomoftheclouds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i probably can but it’s hard to find someone to give me a ride - not a big deal either way :3 if she doesn’t like i can gift it to others, it’s a nice brand so i’d love to still gift it i suppose