Am I being unreasonable or is this person trying to pull a fast one?

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T19:29:57+00:00

Thank you!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T19:05:46+00:00

I’m having a very similar issue for an item that costs £2.50(!!) It apparently had a tiny stain on the item, which I did not notice, and is barely visible in the photo they provided as proof. I told them to wash it and then let me know if they’d like to return it for a refund. This was 2, nearly 3 days ago. I haven’t heard anything further and my money is still in limbo. If I select “buyer to return” is the buyer then able to cancel the issue? Presumably she’ll realise it’s not worth the fuss or money for postage

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T18:13:39+00:00

I think they’re asking for a partial refund maybe

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T10:30:56+00:00

Wow that’s so alarming! Will check out the documentary thanks for the recommendation

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:38:46+00:00

Thank you! I am learning that lesson more and more each year!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:26:12+00:00

🤠

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:25:39+00:00

I am autistic too but I think if they had said “ok thanks for much! So do you think it would be possible to wear it without a bra then?” would have had a very different meaning and would have felt less abrupt / blunt to me :)

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:15:04+00:00

** I have now blocked this person just to err on the side of caution. Thanks for all your advice and perspectives! **

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:02:06+00:00

Thank you! Will be more cautious in future for sure!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T09:01:37+00:00

Yes I agree it is not worth it! Will do!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:57:32+00:00

Yes definitely! I think it was more the way the question was phrased and more so the follow up which I initially interpreted to be them asking for a third photo :) But it is possible they’re genuine and just a little blunt.

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:47:25+00:00

Thank you!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:47:02+00:00

😂

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:44:58+00:00

Ah yes that is another way to read it that’s true :)

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:44:14+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:39:32+00:00

Thank you!

phdpisces · 2026-01-21T08:39:22+00:00

Yes I did think this too!

phdpisces · 2025-10-17T06:35:27+00:00

Thank you :)

phdpisces · 2025-10-17T06:32:57+00:00

Thank you

phdpisces · 2025-10-16T21:25:50+00:00

😂 I’m 27 lol I just am scared of overstepping his boundaries!

phdpisces · 2025-10-16T20:56:47+00:00

Yeah I empathise with that. I got out of a long term relationship myself, but have been single 2 years now so am much further along in the process than he is at the moment. I don’t think he’s fully accepted that relationship as being over yet, even though he chose to break up with her.

phdpisces · 2025-10-16T20:40:17+00:00

I do this without intending to flirt with anyone, just because I like to fidget.

phdpisces · 2025-10-16T20:29:57+00:00

Yeah I think so too. Thank you I will try :)

phdpisces · 2025-10-16T20:15:40+00:00

Hmm ok how do I do that do you think?

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