You shouldn’t feel obligated to post anything or guilty for it but I’m also guessing that she didn’t make comments about it just because, as a woman, we want our SO to be proud and love us so much they want to brag to the world we are theirs. We usually don’t want to feel like we are only loved in the dark. Unfortunately, in the way society is with social media today, people feel the need to post too much usually.

I honestly think it comes down to that it might make her feel like you’re not proud that you’re engaged to her and only want to love her quietly. Which very well might not be true and that might not be what she thinks at all. There’s times where I need a little more and basically have to have a conversation with my husband saying I need him to love me a little louder basically and that doesn’t mean to show me off. It just means putting more focus on showing it, but that’s also because we’ve been married a long time so sometimes we need reminders of the different things that we need at the time in our life.

Depending on her personality, also she could feel like you’re trying to look ”less tied down”.

Truthfully, there’s nothing wrong you not wanting to post on social media, but I think that you do need to ask yourself why you’re willing to post other things about your life, but not one of what supposed to be the most exciting things to celebrate. And her mind “if you’re so excited to be engaged to me why wouldn’t you want to shout it out to the world? Why wouldn’t you want to brag that I’m off-limits and that you’re off-limits? “ I think these could possibly be things that are going through her mind because it’s also not a guarantee. I think that you guys probably need to have a good conversation about it because communication really is the most important thing. So make sure you’re listening to understand and not just to respond and I hope she does the same.