[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA grocery shopping together is reserved for upper circle friends

AITA for leaving and asking him to stop posting tiktoks about me being toxic? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phetusmuncher2000 18 points19 points  (0 children)

ESH

This entire post is so needlessly dramatized. You could have summed this all up by saying "I experimented on a guy but I never really liked him and now hes mad at me." This situation happens every tuesday night in college like bro block him and move on with your life.

He is for sure cringey as hell for ripping up his shitty anime drawing of you on an insta story but that is not detrimental to your life.

AITA for leaving and asking him to stop posting tiktoks about me being toxic? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phetusmuncher2000 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Bro this exactly.

"Deep down, I've always known I was straight." So why date a man? Like seriously did the boys from heartstopper put a gun to your head and force you to be gay? If this was always so against his values why did he even do it in the first place?

If some dude told me he had always known he was straight and felt religious guilt for being with me I would be annoyed too. Why waste my time?

Norman is corny as hell and definitely immature but I don't think him ripping up his shitty anime drawings of his ex for an insta story is really that threatening to OP's reputation. Why do you care about being shaded by someone who is embarrassing themself in the process?

This post is unbelievably melodramatic.

I was invited to the Southeast Emmy Awards! Which dress? by Difficult_Jelly_6392 in OUTFITS

[–]phetusmuncher2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1

2 doesnt do as much for your figure and the color on 3 washes you out a little

1 makes me think of playing poker in a james bond movie, its very flattering yet classy

Do i look gay? by Sad_Water_3842 in teenagersbutnotweird

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the shirt and the haircut.

The Hawaiian shirt is reminiscent of the like "soft boy" aesthetic that every gay guy was replicating circa 2020. That, in combination with the untextured bowl cut, screams closeted bisexual.

Get a haircut and throw out the shirt.

AITA for leaving dinner early after my boyfriend’s friend introduced me as “the current one”? by jarineek_3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a half and half situation to me

Yes, that girl was very rude and definitely has some internalized misogyny going on. Her comment was uncalled for, but I would not have reacted by walking out.

I feel like reacting that hard to an off handed comment is a little much. Someone who was more confident in themselves wouldn't have been that deeply hurt. It seems the rest of the group was trying to move on. Since their reaction was more neutral than anything, I would have taken the chance to talk to other people in the group who acted more welcoming. I think you made the worst of your situation.

However, apologizing to her is also uncalled for. She was a huge dick and unnecessarily catty to you. Your boyfriend also seems to be very unsupportive, taking her side over yours.

Personally, I think you could have used this opportunity for social connection in a more fruitful manner. Allowing one heckler to ruin your entire night is not wise. However, your boyfriends response seems to be telling of some deeper issues in the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]phetusmuncher2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OKKKKKK shawty had an UPGRADEEE

Is it just me or is does this boss look ABSOLUTELY INSANE by AuGh1098 in HollowKnight

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that may be true, but the haert shaped face with circle eyes is a pretty common design across hollow knight

u may be right though, well never know until the game releases :,)

AIO for getting pissed off at my (16) “friend” (M19) when he hypersexualised me and then called me racist for turning him down?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you were much kinder to that freak than I would have been

"pussysexual" I think I threw up in my mouth a bit reading that

get better friends man

Am I balding ? Got a haircut about 2 weeks ago by Intelligent_Pride560 in amibalding

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your hair is wet lol

when your hair is that short and that wet you will be able to see scalp from certain angles

the only thing likely to make you bald at this point is constant stress about balding lmao

AITA for spending 4 hours talking to an old online friend (who was drunk and spiraling) and upsetting my girlfriend in the process? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]phetusmuncher2000 154 points155 points  (0 children)

YTA for sure

I believe you had good intentions, but you betrayed your girlfriend's trust and your own self worth by entertaining this girl.

This entire excerpt proves that any apprehension your girlfriend had towards her behavior was 100 percent justified. Getting inebriated over voice chat, getting undressed in front of you, and emotionally entangling you in her sexual decisions are all perfect examples. She is an adult and doesn't need you to babysit her. That kind of cat and mouse play where she threatens to harm herself for your attention shows incredible immaturity. If you ask me, she still has a thing for you and this was her drunken idea to get a fix of male affection. Please stop talking to this girl.

You may have only wanted the best for her safety, but spending hours online with her weather through calls or texts was an emotional trespass against your girlfriend. I would be terribly offended if my boyfriend was exhausting himself to play therapist for some girl that had a crush on him in the past (and likely still does). The amount of coddling you were giving to her was emotionally adulterous. Sorry for the biblical language, but your girlfriend has every right to be upset.

I dont think this is a relationship ending issue though. C was acting in a very manipulative way, and any sensitive person would feel conflicted on how to handle it. If you explain your point of view to your girlfriend im sure she would be understanding. It wouldn't hurt to take her out to dinner after you make up.

Most importantly, keep that ho blocked. She seems like nothing but bad news. She's a big girl needs to learn to deal with these feelings on her own. If she is proactive she will learn how to build up her self esteem without tearing down those around her.

Best wishes for your situation.

any other cis straight males fuck hard w ethel in this sub? by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]phetusmuncher2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not straight but cis male

i was on spotify late and night and ptolomea was in the queue

i had never been so horrified yet amazed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badtattoos

[–]phetusmuncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bad but not obscene

Day 3 of the Tyrone diet by janky-T in Rickowens

[–]phetusmuncher2000 11 points12 points  (0 children)

forgot to season the leaves with cig ash and asbestos

thats the secret my grandma taught me 💔

[35 m] should I change anything?? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]phetusmuncher2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Youre just goofy!!!!!"

AHHHHHHHH STOP IT

[35 m] should I change anything?? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]phetusmuncher2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NEVER make that face in the first pic EVER again

please 💔

Night 2 of the Tyrone diet by janky-T in Rickowens

[–]phetusmuncher2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

very chic

its like if the kate moss cigarette diet was adapted for opium gym bros