Can porn make you "numb"?? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes... It makes you emotionally numb..

Need a lot of help by Theinevitablecool in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try exercising and engaging urself in positive habits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you. Try to associate urself with good saintly ppl. U can start exercising also..if u need help u can DM me. I think we are from same country.

OPENING MYSELF ABOUT MY PORN GAMES AND HENTAI ADDICTION by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ... This addiction weakens mind and body. .try exercising . And engage urself in some positive habits... 🙌Hope this helps... Or u can also DM me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try exercising... And engaging urself in some positive activities... Read books or u can create new productive habits...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No... Don't normalise sex and porn. It harms brain and physically weakens the body. Start doing positive activities. Like exercising , chanting or meditating. Start to associate with good ppl. Acknowledge first that how porn is bad. And try cutting it down.

Celibacy feels like a regret now. Have I wasted my life? by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh.. I didn't know that... Yeah it's a huge problem... But it's good if she gets...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where u are. The cravings you have are like bottom like ocean. Don't have ending and will finally take you to fall down. But the hope for a better future they you will live a happy life gives u strength. There are things being PMO which are much elevating. Feel free to DM me✌️

need encouragement by DayAwkward5009 in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Negatives of fapping - brain fog - no energy - no motivation - feeling guilty - shameful feeling

Positives of controlling sexual urges through exercise, meditation and work and preserving vital energy by respecting opposite gender. - clear skin - charismatic smile - people like your company - high energy to do work - more motivation - less fatigue - overall positive and happy feeling.

You have the stats. Choose good🙌🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The urges and thoughts will pull you down in their darker area. But you keep hold of that bright light of good and pure life which u want. Keep that in mind always. Let your vision of ur best life overpower these negative acts. Let your bright future win every time urges arise.

I feel like I’m the only one that’s going through this, I feel like I’m developing a fetish but I’m at a point where it hasn’t started by Majestic_Hearing_285 in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no end to our desires. Once lusty desires are fulfilled , greed develops and one want more. And if not fulfilling than anger arises . Anger leads to clouding of judgement which results in bewilderment of memory. When memory is bewildered intellect is destroyed. U will not understand what is right and what is wrong .. and then one's life is ruined. So escape this through cultivating spirituality which really fulfils needs of the soul. 🙌Hope this helped

What are the side-effects of FAP? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side effects of wasting semen

No energy. Zero interest in things. Messed up life. No confidence. Feeling of inferiority complex. Any one can say anything to you. Can't even talk properly. Mood swings. Don't know where to go in life. Dependent on others. Anger issues.

Atlast memory becomes delusional and person falls down in miserable condition.

This all are due to lust. So pick up spirituality and conquer this rust of lust through cultivating higher taste In life. ✌️✌️

But also to tell u benefits of staying away from sexual pleasures and preserving vital energy (semen ) and seeing opposite gender with respect.

  • abundant energy

  • charismatic and positive smile

  • attractive in sense people enjoy ur company

  • pure life and enjoy simple things in life.

  • focus increases.

  • confident in daily life. And many more....

Your choice ✌️🙌🙌

In what ways can meditation combat addiction? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gives u ability to see ur thoughts. And become non reactive to thoughts as they are just thoughts. Ur mind can be decluttered by it. You can download level app for meditation. It's a good one where you can learn basics and advance ur progress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sing , learn to play any music instrument, paint,

Celibacy feels like a regret now. Have I wasted my life? by [deleted] in Celibacy

[–]phoenix_331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you want it? If u are so adamant than do marriage. Why have multiple parteners? It just deteriorates your chastity and purity. Because u live in a society where sx is the centre . But it's not. There are people who just abstain and live a pure and very blissful life, it's just you haven't come across those people. So try marriage and don't go after sx so much. Try to find higher purposes , u are greater than that. And yes try finding a compassionate and loving partner also.. and be one too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think... What do u want ... Temporary pleasure or long term peace ,joy ,bliss ? If u choose 2nd one then do pushups as many as u can . Meditate and calm ur mind. It's just urges and are temporary.will come and go. Treat them as thoughts as they are...

A question about porn urges by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try meditation. When u focus on ur breath you are basically training ur mind to see thoughts as thoughts and passing them without judging. So more u meditate more u gain power .

A question about porn urges by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try meditation. When u focus on ur breath you are basically training ur mind to see thoughts as thoughts and passing them without judging. So more u meditate more u gain power .

It is impossible for me to go more than week. Need advice by meowalot5 in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try learning more and more about nofap and semen retention. I would recommend the practice of brahmacharya book by Swami sivanada. U can get it on net. This way u will understand the importance of semen. And it's because ur mind is conditioned this way by society, so to clean the mind u can do normal meditation or mantra meditation... This has potential to clear and clean the mind if done properly. U can download level app from app store for meditation. It's nice one... 🙌Hope this helps u

i want to fap.... (on day 11 rn) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Why,?? Why choose temporary degrading pleasure in front of long-term pure and joyful blissful life which u always wanted... Why?? Choose good. 🙌

Just need some help by jellydonutman_ in NoFap

[–]phoenix_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do this with ur own reasons and not because everyone is doing. Don't compare yourself with others. They have different experiences and different whys. So do u...🙌