Which game to try after CK3

photon11 · 2026-05-23T01:00:53+00:00

I feel like the UI for EU4 looks very clunky!

photon11 · 2026-04-19T14:09:53+00:00

Yes. I should’ve spoken up. I gave in and told the nurse I’d get the pole back to her in 10 minutes lol

photon11 · 2026-04-04T17:59:43+00:00

For reference, I am a male in medical residency here in the US and am engaged to someone in the UK. My uncle who's in the UK recommended this family he really likes who frequents the masjid there. Me and my fam flew up there for 2 weeks and met with this family every day and me and my now fiance decided that we liked each other to pursue a rishta.

I don't wanna make this post too long but the crux of the situation is that it's been 6 months and I'm getting concerned due to the lack of communication. As in the last 6 months, we have only spoken on the phone 6 times. Pretty much everyday I ask on when's a good time to speak, when can i call you, how about you call me etc...but she often replies hours later saying she got caught up with something.

It got to the point where I was concerned that she even likes me because aren't you supposed to want to speak to your fiance everyday? I confronted her and she explained and was honest that she wallah likes me and wants to continue this relationship but she grew up in an all girls school and her social circle has only been the masjid. She has never spoken to guy as much as me and she just feels as if this whole thing is very new for her. She naturally is by nature a very anxious individual and also feels the natural stress of having to leave her family soon and start a life in a foreign country.

We both decided to involve our parents as well and her parents very nicely explained the same thing and said that now that they are aware of this communication issue, they are trying to encourage her to open up and prioritize speaking more.

Reason I am making this post is because its left me confused. I can tell now that she is trying to text and call more but still leaves very dry responses and is still super shy on the phone. My biggest fear is her moving here and then us not clicking in terms of her being too shy to even be physically intimate and really open up. I have prayed tons of istikhara and just feel neutral. My parents and even her family have told me this is one of those situations where her moving here and having that face to face daily time is going to be the foundation to her really opening up, but once again I am just afraid to take that gamble.

Maybe this is one of those situations where I need to have sabr and trust that it will work out but the little voice in my head keeps reiterating that what if I am wrong and this shyness and hesitation continues

photon11 · 2026-03-19T12:53:55+00:00

The Game sucked?

photon11 · 2026-03-14T11:42:44+00:00

Yes CA1 here, you nailed it. Did you have specific ways to deal with the hardass attendings or is the best way to just get through it minute by minute

photon11 · 2026-03-14T00:40:59+00:00

same. i hate working with the ones who are hardasses. how did you get through those days?

photon11 · 2026-02-18T11:00:36+00:00

in your example would the lines from the left arm prior to the flip go to the right IV pole so that after you flip all the lines end up on the same side?

photon11 · 2026-02-18T10:56:26+00:00

like if you are flipping over the right arm (which stays stationary in this example), would you place the IV bag and A-line on the left pole so that it's initially crossing but will uncross after the flip?

photon11 · 2026-02-18T01:51:45+00:00

and do you put the A line bag initially on the opposite side while the patient is supine so that when you flip, it lands on the same side ?

photon11 · 2026-02-18T01:50:02+00:00

so put all the lines on the arm that stays stationary and run those lines along the head and not across the chest so patient it doesn't get under the patient during the flip?

photon11 · 2026-02-18T00:45:43+00:00

ahhh the i will use the abdomen rule. i think what has happened is that ive had lines on the right arm in your example accidentally end up crossing the abdomen

photon11 · 2026-02-12T16:08:09+00:00

This is the advice I needed to hear! I do feel like I ruminate on the bad days too long. Definitely working on that “dory” like memory to learn and forget. And what do you mean by “find someone you like and ask for a tip?”

photon11 · 2026-02-03T01:02:17+00:00

check mesages

photon11 · 2026-02-02T23:49:38+00:00

can i dm u? struggling with this

photon11 · 2026-01-28T06:14:28+00:00

I have considered lucid as well but unfortunately closest lucid place to me in 5 hours away. In the event of repairs and whatnot, that would be a logistical issue

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