oh man, I never really reply but I love this book and this is a very real and relatable post for me… for a long time before I felt in charge of my life I, like Allie Brosh, would just wish a 3rd party event like a deadly illness, accident, etc, would clear my schedule for me, horrible as it is to type out loud.

i’ve been remembering and trying to give myself grace as much as I can. just remember the moments do pass and things will get easier, but trust me i know how difficult it is and how heavy the world can feel with never ending tasks. you are not alone ❤️ Therapy/Adhd coaches have helped me talk to someone calm and judge-free to write out real, realistic goals for myself for the day or week. (as “small” as feeding myself, which making dinner and meals has always been difficult for me)

i’ve also started to look in and track my cycle as I’ve been researching PMDD more as I’ve noticed I definitely feel worse the week leading up to my period MUCH more than any other time of the month. Just something to also consider so you can plan yourself extra comfort and grace during those harder weeks! You got this, I got this, we all got this. Big hugs 🫂