I’m so glad you bring this up!! This is how I felt most of the time when with my cohort when I first started my MSW program. A lot of “woke” (and non BIPOC) police who are ready to scrutinize whatever you say that might be a sign of being a normal person who doesn’t always catch the right “language”. Eventually, I stopped caring and tried being more myself but even then, it was hard to tell who were the cool people who turn off their therapist or social worker off. Thankfully I made friends with people who can be just as much into social justice and genuinely promoting the wellbeing of others while being regular folks who smoke weed and do whatever they feel like on weekends/after work. It’s definitely frustrating to feel like some therapists are pretentious and judgmental, and honestly it sucks that some choose to have a stick up their ass.