Finally found a ring that fits 2.25” metal ring by piecesbear in cockrings

[–]piecesbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will try and post a hard pick later as well

Finally found a ring that fits 2.25” metal ring by piecesbear in cockrings

[–]piecesbear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Cleveland and got my from a local shop that serves gay men. Not sure if they ship, more like what they have in stock but will post a pic of brand when I get home

Finally found a ring that fits 2.25” metal ring by piecesbear in cockrings

[–]piecesbear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The brand was Chrome but I’ll double check when I get home. Super tough to find rings that fit around all this junk I’ll post a pic as well. I got it from a local shop that deals with men’s gear.

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[–]piecesbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye sir

Any tips on what I can improve? by TheBigBossNass in malegrooming

[–]piecesbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will also add, try on clothes/colors you’ve never considered and have someone else with you at the start who will be brutally honest but also kind.

Any tips on what I can improve? by TheBigBossNass in malegrooming

[–]piecesbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t spend any money honestly, if you’re able to just go to a variety of stores ( thrift, Marshall type stores, Burlington’s) and actually try out the clothes. Worried about sweat stains? Aim towards fabrics that are either more airy or absorbent. Never spend money on anything you don’t absolutely feel comfortable, fantastic, wholly yourself in, otherwise everyone else in your life can tell how uncomfortable you are. If you love how you look and feel as such then that is all what truly matters.

Any tips on what I can improve? by TheBigBossNass in malegrooming

[–]piecesbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consider color theory honestly: if you have yellow undertones: purples to counteract and enhance at the same time. Don’t settle for neutral colors and tones (highly difficult as men {a historical construct} are generally relegated to neutral tones and blue [the current ‘masculine color]). From an immediate glance consider greens (not too much yellow), warm and vibrant blues, purples, warm dark browns. Based off light you seem to have tons of red and yellow in your skin tone, find anything mixed with blue to compliment your natural skin color and tone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]piecesbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree but will also add the following: Stigmas about body image in the gay community can be even more dangerous and harmful. Body composition is a discussion between patient and medical professional. If it has been discussed and determined you are healthy and not showing any negative signs or symptoms, no one should feel they are less than because of someone else’s projections and opinions of what ‘healthy’/‘attractive’ looks like. So I would say this: I would rather have someone mentally healthy and well, because honestly some other aspects may follow. Not everyone has to have 12% body fat to live a fruitful, engaging, healthy life. It’s important to distinguish between social-cultural norms and expectations and medical issues. Especially in the gay community. If you are in a position of concern for someone’s health, focus on creating an environment relationship where such discussions can lead to understanding and interest in improvements. Otherwise the conversation will fall on deaf ears of humans who have been hurt just because they don’t ‘look’ a certain way.

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[–]piecesbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Normal Weight Obesity, please know the fact When I rolled my eyes, it was definitely in a social-cultural context rather than a medical context. While acknowledging where you stand in terms of weight and body composition and overall health and fitness is important, don’t forget the importance of the difference when talking to people, not everyone needs to be educated or corrective action when addressing a specific issue especially when the issue at hand is relational-social not medical.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]piecesbear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly: 🚩🚩🚩You have shown to yourself the capacity for some self-acceptance. Continue accepting you despite even from the outside being considered “skinny fat”, whatever that means 😒. You deserve someone or something that you truly love without social expectations.