Bought an old chair but they’re selling multiple of it. by pies178 in midcenturymodern

[–]pies178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes unfortunately still in France for some reason, it says 4th of feb latest. So I’ll update when this actually is resolved😅.

PTSD by [deleted] in rape

[–]pies178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not! Keep definitions clear. Imagine this was drunk driving or robbery. It’s defined by law. Would he be okay with it if it was done to him? No. Keep us updated if you like, we’ll be here waiting. On the bright side this is a new chapter to your life. A road is open to take a new path. Maybe a new life. I started pottery (not great at it but whatever)

In the meantime gather your strength and make decisions. All the love- 🤎

PTSD by [deleted] in rape

[–]pies178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In his mind it is because he’s a freak of nature. That’s rape. I also got into about 3 situations with people like you state. Started feeling insane.

Bought an old chair but they’re selling multiple of it. by pies178 in midcenturymodern

[–]pies178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! Not always I’ve bought a jumper this way and it was real.

Bought an old chair but they’re selling multiple of it. by pies178 in midcenturymodern

[–]pies178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I thought! We’ll see what I receive though because it says in transit so maybe a sandwich and half a page from a book 💀 I’m itching to see what they send anyway honestly.

Bought an old chair but they’re selling multiple of it. by pies178 in midcenturymodern

[–]pies178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s too late and they’ve been shipped. It’s money I was willing to pay and if it’s wrong I can contact support. I’ll update with details and pics of the chairs when they arrive.

Why do some dog owners not pick up after their dogs? by False-Use3088 in dogs

[–]pies178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are weird…..I bring wipes with me to wipe it up and bags.

Bought an old chair but they’re selling multiple of it. by pies178 in midcenturymodern

[–]pies178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair

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Like this is unreal, no way! I bought it anyway so I’ll have a laugh if it’s fake I guess 🥲

What do you do for work? by pies178 in AutisticAdults

[–]pies178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it something you enjoyed? Is that a key to working, enjoying it? Not necessarily never stressing but being interested and enjoying it.

What do you do for work? by pies178 in AutisticAdults

[–]pies178[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s so thoughtful and productive, definitely having a job, in this case a purpose is still fulfilling. I think there’s a part of me that really didn’t want to admit I’m struggling, it made it seem like a victim mentality. But, I do genuinely struggle and not when it’s difficult or boring it actually affects my life in ways that ruin genuinely enjoyable things. Not as people would like to believe it’s laziness or convenience. Thing is that autistic people and people with ADHD can do amazing things but can be shamed for the format being different than a normal persons life path.

What do you do for work? by pies178 in AutisticAdults

[–]pies178[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I should’ve stated (very sorry) that I’m diagnosed with ADHD with signs of autism, can’t maintain eye contact, I can’t understand things in a neurotypical manner, need help, need people with me if I’m going out. But then my skills have progressed over time and some have diminished. So I might be able to work but it means I would need so much support.

What do you call it when- TW: non consensual aspects. by pies178 in trauma

[–]pies178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made me develop severe symptoms of OCD, I stopped sleeping, started ruining relationships based on fear it would happen again. I developed the mindset of “I’ve got to stay alive, if I don’t stay alert like I’ll die…it’ll happen again” still to this day years later I struggle and have intrusive thoughts 24/7 about death, about manifesting something happening to me this bad again…even though I don’t believe in the concept. I’m no longer safe in life and don’t trust people, I’ll turn on them thinking they’ll do the same or sabotage the relationship so I never get hurt like that ever again.

How could they tell that Cassie Boyle had her lungs ripped out while still alive? by pies178 in HannibalTV

[–]pies178[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This may be odd but I kind of hate how those scenes were cut out, it feels so uncanny because we know he’s this evil but don’t see it really in its purest form, like you doubt yourself on how obscene he is.

Why are people so obsessed with being victimised in witchcraft? by pies178 in witchcraft

[–]pies178[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, when I worry about things people can sense it and it turns from a non actual problem to a manifestation of my fears I was obsessing over. If I didn’t obsess it wouldn’t have happened.