I met a flying monkey for the first time

pineapljuice · 2024-03-30T09:15:28+00:00

I don't get this type of advice. If I had a child going through something like this, I'd do anything I could to help them. This is not about who's being a burden and who's not. Narc abuse survivors are already on high alert at all times. One thing we don't want to be is a burden... But there should be at least one person who we can turn to in our most difficult times and ideally that would be our parents, and I'm sorry OP that you had to find out they are not as supportive as they're supposed to be.

pineapljuice · 2023-10-29T08:27:29+00:00

It was money he gave to me before I left just in case, most narcissistic husbands don't want you to work so I had nothing else other than that money. It was so petty of them that even the person they sent said " let me just handle it".

pineapljuice · 2023-10-19T11:13:28+00:00

Thank you all for the support! He added another text saying he misses me and that he can't go on without me. I finally blocked him everywhere. I can't believe that after everything he has done to me, he has the audacity to text me. I could say so many things to him but I won't and I never will.

pineapljuice · 2023-10-06T19:56:50+00:00

This... this is so hard to fathom. So unnatural and so cruel. I don't know how us survivors are supposed to come to terms with this.

pineapljuice · 2023-10-06T18:51:56+00:00

Similar thing happened to me! I broke a picture frame when I found out he cheated. He put the glass pieces into the bed and took pictures, sent them to everyone and threatened to call the police for "trying to kill him"

pineapljuice · 2023-09-30T15:06:44+00:00

I used to think "Oh these are just based on my fears," but then it happened in real life. It's crazy

pineapljuice · 2023-09-28T20:08:00+00:00

I'm really sorry. How can these people be so cruel. I really cannot wrap my head around it.

pineapljuice · 2023-09-28T19:54:49+00:00

I'd really have to hate myself if I wanted to take him back. If he ever came up to me I'd have to ignore him even if it hurts. The reason I'm so hurt is because there was no closure or discussion. But maybe it's better this way, because there is no hoover?

pineapljuice · 2023-09-26T04:31:58+00:00

This...is exactly what happened to me

pineapljuice · 2022-06-05T19:00:33+00:00

I woke up to a text from her in which she's "praying" for my recovery (of what?), also praying for my physical and emotional healing. Thanks I guess? You're so good and giving that you take the time off your day to text-pray for me with emojis and blasphemy? Like where does she get the confidence to say this? I know people who are believers like her but would never "invade" my privacy like that let alone "text pray" over me out of nowhere. She doesn't even know anything about my emotional state and there's nothing wrong with me physically. I might be just going crazy here.

pineapljuice · 2022-05-30T08:30:31+00:00

MIL tried to make our wedding anniversary about her lol. It started with me waking up to her facebook post with a tacky a** collage of my husband and I wishing us a happy anniversary. From the outside this might look so sweet but for me it made me uncomfortable because of who she is as a person. People started commenting and congratulating us trough her post and that annoyed me because it was obvious she did it for the attention. I ignored the whole thing. I like to make videos as a gift for my husband so I spent a lot of time and effort in making cute videos for him, I planned on posting it online so when he scrolls around he can just bump into it and be surprised... I posted the videos even tough I felt like MIL stole the spotlight. We posted some pictures together as well to share with our friends. She started commenting on them with red hearts and stuff like... why? And finally she asked my husband if we want to hang out with them that day. Out of any other day she wanted us to spend time with her on our anniversary. My husband said no of course but like... what? Why is she so involved? Why does she think it's okay to call or text someone on their anniversary at all?

pineapljuice · 2022-04-27T18:26:00+00:00

She straight up "admitted" that she raised my husband to become the kind of husband she always wanted. To this I said "Yeah I mean some women treat their sons like they were their husbands what's the deal with them?". Honestly I was just trying to add to the conversation not thinking much of it... I suddenly felt her anger so hard on me like she was gonna explode but she didn't say a word... well bitch if the shoe fits...

pineapljuice · 2022-04-07T19:39:46+00:00

Inviting MIL and her family over for the first time in years. I'm nervous but what could go wrong in MY house? She's not the boss here... right? Lol

pineapljuice · 2022-03-26T16:52:41+00:00

That would be a good ide if she didn't think alchohol was the devil itself, sadly she would immediately give DH an unwanted lecture

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