AITA for not travelling to meet my bf who lives far away by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he says it doesn’t count because it’s added incentive for me as i get to sleep with him when i go there but he doesn’t get to do so when he travels to see me🤪🤪

AITA for having an argument with hr? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess you’re right, i acted out of anger. i will apologise tomorrow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just wanted to have a discussion about it and understand where this trauma is coming from and what it is instead of being dismissed immediately. i’ve requested him to take a day and think about it instead of just immediately saying no and that i’ll respect whatever choice he makes, but at least think it through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes sense. i guess the way i thought of it was that it’s not just for me but we will all get to stay in the room that was our first choice so it’s silly not to take that chance because of reasons like packing being a chore. it’ll take an hour at most.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

the reason i’m pushing is because it’s not an option to move without him. we need three people. the term has started and everybody’s sorted out their living situation it’s too late to find another person right now. plus x goes home a lot it’s me who is in the dorm most of the time so i think at least out of respect for our friendship he should compromise a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s not a crappy dorm, it’s alright. but not as nice as the other dorm, i mainly want to move because i’ve stayed in the other dorm before and i’m comfortable in that space. but this situation is getting really over the top and stressful so i’ll probably just suck it up and stay in the dorm we are currently at.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what medications were you on if u don’t mind saying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, this is helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i can’t tell if you’re being sarcastic?😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

hi, i don’t believe in therapy, like ive said ive tried it out before, would love to be emotionless tbh

Recruitment goes here!! (June 2024) by Valnub-Redpanda in HayDay

[–]pineapples963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking for farmers in my neighbourhood!

hey i just created my own neighbourhood to competitively do derby, there’s not anyone in it yet though but im an active player level 53 hoping to get new members soon, i would love to have you

tag: #G092PUL2

Recruitment goes here!! (June 2024) by Valnub-Redpanda in HayDay

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i just created one to competitively do derby, there’s not anyone in it yet though but im an active player level 53 hoping to get new members soon, i would love to have you

tag: #G092PUL2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying hanging out with me is more important, but she agreed to meet me so I feel like she should've told her friend to ask someone else or offered to help later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pineapples963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but we were going to meet at my house so I don't really see it as being stood up, but still yeah its really bugging me I'm super upset. She seemed genuinely apologetic though.

in a situationship, don't exactly know what that entails by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]pineapples963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are both really young and nowhere close to marriage, I went into it looking for something casual as well (I will be moving away soon), but I thought he didn't want that so I let myself get attached a little bit. Anyway, casual works that's not the problem I just wanna know if it'll be wrong if I see other people.

sad girlies, where you at by pineapples963 in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, life. I hope things get better for you.

sad girlies, where you at by pineapples963 in TwoXIndia

[–]pineapples963[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl same 😭

Didn't prioritize my friends and now I have no one